see, these aforementioned are the types of challenges many in the GLBT community have to deal with precisely because they were often shunned for what is natural to their heart and desires.
Most straight middle school and high school kids are afforded the opportunity -nay-oblivious to their opportunities to express their hearts and sexuality - openly.
Now, because of a lack of natural trial relationships Woogexx should have gone through as a teen, delayed emotional growth brings into question issues of self image, self doubt, acceptance and other formative relationship configurations at a later age.
Not saying that his issues cannot be resolved- because they can, but rather, these issues probably would have, should have been worked out earlier, leaving him more time devoted to expressing his creative talents rather than sitting in a counselors chair.
Nothing teaches like experience, and to deny that to anyone - a child, teen or adult, fosters frustration which subsequently wreaks havoc on the individuals health - mentally, emotionally and spiritually.