You're completely correct on that last statement. It's not only that the differences exist, it's also that so many of us don't have a say in the matter at all. It would be very different if everyone could truly choose their ideal size, etcetera and have at it but that's not where we're at.
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Personally I have never understood the whole SPH thing. It's never made sense to me to put someone down consistently for something with which they have no control.
I could never imagine making fun of someone for the size of their penis. Then again, depending on the guy, I might get my ass kicked. Even online in an anonymous situation I couldn't do it and this is in situations where someone literally asked for humiliation. I feel like a sort of understand now why guys request humiliation but I still can't do it so I certainly couldn't do unrequested humiliation.
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look. As a guy with a tiny dick I can tell you it probalby is a defense mechanism. Regardless of how it developed it is crazy enjoyable to be humiliated. I've had guys come over and leave because they thought my cock was too small. Instead of getting all upset about it I jerk off over it. Honestly some of the worst rejections are the hottest jerk off sessions to me. Maybe you don't understand it, but you also probalby never have to worry about being rejected for the size of your penis. I've loved it for as long as i can remember, and in healthy relationships the guys just humiliate me and tell me about their ex's and then just make out with me and cuddle after we're finished. It's a hot thing for guys into sph and probably pretty healthy. TBH nothing turns me on anything close to having my dick humiliated by another guy. Can't explain it, but I love it.
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Please remember that SPH is kink and maybe even BDSM. Any of that done on an unconsenting person is not kinky, it is abusive.
That said, I'm glad you're able to use it to your benefit. Just understand that SPH is not for everyone.
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I agree with both of you. SPH is definitely in the fettish category, I enjoy it. Similar to cockboiii, for many years. Nothing hotter than a bigger guy humiliating me. But I accept it is quite niche. And I totally get nhguy also, it absolutely has to be done with consent. Without consent its just plain bullying / abuse.
I think it important to remember not all small guys like it
I agree with both of you. SPH is definitely in the fettish category, I enjoy it. Similar to cockboiii, for many years. Nothing hotter than a bigger guy humiliating me. But I accept it is quite niche. And I totally get nhguy also, it absolutely has to be done with consent. Without consent its just plain bullying / abuse.
I think it important to remember not all small guys like it
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It sucks that anyone would feel less than proud of their cock. Everyone's cock is different. It's the only one you've got. Enjoy everything about it.
I arguably have been rejected for my size. My wife finds my size very painful and wants nothing to do with intercourse. Believe me, from my perspective the situation is the opposite of hot. It's possible that the issue is something other than my size but it has been a problem every time we've had intercourse and she has never given any explanation other than it hurts.
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This. I wish more people would say this more readily when so many on this site want to shame.
How does it help? Do you have a share of friends to have sex with?
Your dick looks great! I'd swap in a heartbeat!
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It's interesting. This thread is about imagining having a small penis. Instead of imagining, hung guys come here telling us they're blessed. Ok, blessed with what?
I've never once in my life been rejected after showing nudes. I've been rejected by guys who didn't like my face, I've been told that I'm too fat, too short (height), too hairy, and once I've literally had a guy openly say that he loves my dick but he basically can't get over the rest of me enough, despite my dick.
But refused for my dick? Never. I've maybe had guys hesitating or worried to not be able to handle it, but that was (in my experience) always solved by being gentle.
It's a huge privilege. I've literally never had to worry about my dick size ever, it's an entire chapter of my self-esteem that just was given to me for free, that I didn't have to fight for, in any way.
Then of course this is valid for the larger numbers (e.g. hooking up with many partners) and not always for the specific cases, like the user above whose wife can't have penetration with him. But yeah, I think that my dick size basically saved me a lot of headaches growing up.
