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I have very few things in my life that bring me any real joy, but I am very blessed in the dick department. Thank goodness. It isn't everything, but it is something. It gets me attention I would never get without it. I'm not wealthy and only a little better than average on looks. My personality was more outgoing.once, but these days I am not very social. So, it helps.
 

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I have very few things in my life that bring me any real joy, but I am very blessed in the dick department. Thank goodness. It isn't everything, but it is something. It gets me attention I would never get without it. I'm not wealthy and only a little better than average on looks. My personality was more outgoing.once, but these days I am not very social. So, it helps.
I think you're cute.
 
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And I would add for effective surgical intervention to be available, especially medically for micro-penises or non-functioning/non-penetrative penises.
You mean advice and links to accommodating medical professionals?
 
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I have very few things in my life that bring me any real joy, but I am very blessed in the dick department. Thank goodness. It isn't everything, but it is something. It gets me attention I would never get without it. I'm not wealthy and only a little better than average on looks. My personality was more outgoing.once, but these days I am not very social. So, it helps.
I feel the exact same way.
 
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You mean advice and links to accommodating medical professionals?
Yes that but also from what I read online the surgeries don't seem to 100% correct the issues (micropenises) since it's a lot of talk about severing a ligament to help it drop lower counseling. The surgeries don't actually build the penis out longer and thicker, from what I can tell, which is unfortunate as that would be the only cure in my eyes. There is phalloplasty but that involves inflatable pumps and building a new penis from scratch rather than using what's available, etcetera, so it doesn't feel as natural, but at least it would do the job so to speak.

I don't actually have a micro-penis, I'm just curious about the issue and find it fascinating so I like to read up about it. That as well as the issues surrounding circumcisions, which I also find interesting and is a whole other convo to be had.
 

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It's ironic that the fellow who was 2.5" would tell me I was more of a man simply based on cock size. He is 6'2", rides a motorcycle and owns a repair shop. I'm 5'6", drive a Honda CR-V and work at a desk but because I have a much larger dick he would tell me I was more of a man. I'm not saying that what you drive or what your job is determines your manliness but I would say neither does your dick size.
Very true.
 
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I feel the exact same way.
As a man with a small penis , I only had problems in school. Most guys had much larger penises than mine. Some chose to make comments in gym class in the showers.
I had a loving man for 30 years and we got along just fine. He lost his fight with cancer.
I met another wonderful man and we get along fine. We have been together for 15 years. He as well, has a larger penis than mine. He is a great guy. I told him I wished I had a large penis. He also told me a penis does NOT make the man. I am getting over the " I have a bigger cock than you"! Who cares! Life is more than Big Penis.
 

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As a man with a small penis , I only had problems in school. Most guys had much larger penises than mine. Some chose to make comments in gym class in the showers.
I had a loving man for 30 years and we got along just fine. He lost his fight with cancer.
I met another wonderful man and we get along fine. We have been together for 15 years. He as well, has a larger penis than mine. He is a great guy. I told him I wished I had a large penis. He also told me a penis does NOT make the man. I am getting over the " I have a bigger cock than you"! Who cares! Life is more than Big Penis.
I think the biggest misconception I've seen is a belief that a larger penis will actually make a big impact on your life. It would be awesome if guys could rent another cock for a month and see the difference it makes in your quality of life. I'd actually love to rent a small one. The one difference for me over some guys is that if I am in a new relationship and I'm going to show my dick, I don't feel any anxiety. On the other hand, I've been married for 15 years so no one new is seeing my dick. I don't show off in the locker room and even if I did, what would it gain me. It wouldn't even excite me. No one who meets me knows my dick size so it's irrelevant. Unless it actually has a negative impact on your sex life, who cares. Unfortunately my size HAS had a negative impact on my sex life and not because I'm too small.
 
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I think the biggest misconception I've seen is a belief that a larger penis will actually make a big impact on your life. It would be awesome if guys could rent another cock for a month and see the difference it makes in your quality of life. I'd actually love to rent a small one. The one difference for me over some guys is that if I am in a new relationship and I'm going to show my dick, I don't feel any anxiety. On the other hand, I've been married for 15 years so no one new is seeing my dick. I don't show off in the locker room and even if I did, what would it gain me. It wouldn't even excite me. No one who meets me knows my dick size so it's irrelevant. Unless it actually has a negative impact on your sex life, who cares. Unfortunately my size HAS had a negative impact on my sex life and not because I'm too small.
If this is true then it's the hype that hurts. Mental health damage hurts.
 

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If this is true then it's the hype that hurts. Mental health damage hurts.
It appears to be ubiquitous across societies. Men will ingest all sorts of crazy animal bone concoctions to get larger penises. I used to get a ton of spam email and half was on penis enlargement. Selling penis enlargement crap to desperate men can make you quite a bit of money. I'd say that more than half the guys on here that express concern about size aren't even small. I've seen guys acknowledge that they are larger than average but feel small when they come here. I don't think that's what the developers of LPSG intended.
 
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This is not the first penis comparing website I've been a member of and one thing I've noticed is that nearly every guy who is small (around 4" or less) is into humiliation. It's not 50%, 70% or even 90%, it's nearly 100%. It's somewhat baffling to me because I can't think of any other physical situation where people seek out humiliation. I've thought about this and came up with a few theories but one thing that occurred to me is that there must be a constant stress of discovery. It's probably not hard to hide from friends. It's entirely possible that I have a friend with a micropenis and I have no idea. I've certainly met guys with micropenises that I was unaware of just based on the law of averages.

However, the one person who would inevitably find out would be a future lover and I imagine the stress must be horrendous. There would be a concern over a negative reaction but more likely would be just a quiet breakup. This is not an imaginary fear but very real. I've talked to very small guys in chat rooms but rarely find any worthwhile conversation. From my experience, these guys are not interested in understanding from another man, they want embarrassment and I'm not willing to do that. I've had long conversations with one fellow who is 2.5" and says he's not seeking embarrassment. I'm glad to see he's somewhat well adjusted but his pics seem designed to accentuate his small size. He was telling me that he has reached out to guys in his similar situation (and sometimes worse) to find solidarity and it generally doesn't go well. According to him, the solidarity he seeks is rebuffed because most of these guys don't want to talk about their small penises as a shared problem because (again, according to him), they like having small penises and don't see it as a problem. He said if he talks about it as a problem he will get ignored in the future by these men. Yet, even as they defends their small penises they seek humiliation as if it were something to be made fun of. It is fascinating how minds work.
I think humiliation is a method of rationalising their size. Although many are not small they fetishise the experience of embarrassment. Which you do you. But at the same time all dicks needs some love. And some guys need encourage and a welcoming partner. Especially since it's the utility of the dick not the size that matters.
 
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I think humiliation is a method of rationalising their size. Although many are not small they fetishise the experience of embarrassment. Which you do you. But at the same time all dicks needs some love. And some guys need encourage and a welcoming partner. Especially since it's the utility of the dick not the size that matters.
I guess the real problem comes in when the size affects the utility but that is generally an extreme situation.
 

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I guess the real problem comes in when the size affects the utility but that is generally an extreme situation.
And a lot of guys underestimate their utility and enjoyment. Even so, guys have had productive sexual relationships without the need of humiliation.
 
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And a lot of guys underestimate their utility and enjoyment. Even so, guys have had productive sexual relationships without the need of humiliation.
I wonder how often women (or men) will break up with a partner over dick size. I've had long conversations with a guy who is extremely small to the point where his wife literally gets nothing from intercourse. I'm not sure what I would do if I was dating a woman and discovered that intercourse was impossible. In most cases, however, it's men's unrealistic view of normal or acceptable that gets in the way.
 
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I wonder how often women (or men) will break up with a partner over dick size. I've had long conversations with a guy who is extremely small to the point where his wife literally gets nothing from intercourse. I'm not sure what I would do if I was dating a woman and discovered that intercourse was impossible. In most cases, however, it's men's unrealistic view of normal or acceptable that gets in the way.
You've hit the nail on the head. A lot of smaller guys falter because of mindset not their actual size and a lot of people expect sex to be intercourse. When in fact BJs, Pumping, etc could be equally stimulating to less endowed partners
 
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As a man with a small penis , I only had problems in school. Most guys had much larger penises than mine. Some chose to make comments in gym class in the showers.
I had a loving man for 30 years and we got along just fine. He lost his fight with cancer.
I met another wonderful man and we get along fine. We have been together for 15 years. He as well, has a larger penis than mine. He is a great guy. I told him I wished I had a large penis. He also told me a penis does NOT make the man. I am getting over the " I have a bigger cock than you"! Who cares! Life is more than Big Penis.
I agree for the most part. How about if someone says "Well I am better looking than you." or "I am taller than you."? It all comes from the same place. None of us chose those genetics for ourself.
 
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I agree for the most part. How about if someone says "Well I am better looking than you." or "I am taller than you."? It all comes from the same place. None of us chose those genetics for ourself.
When you put it that way, it seems frivolous and silly to worry about but I'm sure shorter guys can get similar feelings.

I will never play basketball, football, or run professionally and I'm OK with that. I will never be a porn star and I am more than Ok with that.

Imagine, though, getting constantly reminded that you'll never do this or that and that you don't measure up. That's kinda the point of this discussion thread. Imagine.
 

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How often do guys discover? I think the only guys that see my dick are doctors and that's like once a decade. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm legitimately curious as to how a guy would find out.
I'm thinking thru hookups maybe? I'd never humiliate anyone because that isn't the part of them that defines them first of all. Secondly, sizes run small to large or xtra large.
 
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