I'm in college, and I'm in a class where we have to submit a group project and one of my group members is a girl who I think is bulimic.
This girl is really skinny, not a good kind of skinny, but her arms are comparable to what you see here. (The skinny one of course). Looking at her as a whole, her head looks kind of humongous compared to the rest of her body.
Over the past few weeks, we've had to work 4-5 hours together as a group practically every other weekday and I've noticed some strange behavior. She goes to the restroom a lot, consistently for a few times we meet up. In addition, since my group meets till midnight or so, we have ordered food many times, and she eats with without a problem but disappears for a few times after all of us eat. One time, it was really weird, we were all sitting after eating, and she had just come back from the restroom and just started to undergo the motions like she was throwing up. You know, the body motions when you're about to throw up. She excused herself and went to the restroom and came back.
I'm pretty, pretty sure something is up. I guess the question I have is, do I just act like nothing is wrong? Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I've only worked with the person for about a month now, nowhere close to being a real friend yet. Should I say/do anything? I'm pretty sure her family/friends are aware and I wouldn't be saying anything new. Or do I just move on? It's just awkward...
(edit: is it possible that some girls are just normally this skinny or something?)
This girl is really skinny, not a good kind of skinny, but her arms are comparable to what you see here. (The skinny one of course). Looking at her as a whole, her head looks kind of humongous compared to the rest of her body.
Over the past few weeks, we've had to work 4-5 hours together as a group practically every other weekday and I've noticed some strange behavior. She goes to the restroom a lot, consistently for a few times we meet up. In addition, since my group meets till midnight or so, we have ordered food many times, and she eats with without a problem but disappears for a few times after all of us eat. One time, it was really weird, we were all sitting after eating, and she had just come back from the restroom and just started to undergo the motions like she was throwing up. You know, the body motions when you're about to throw up. She excused herself and went to the restroom and came back.
I'm pretty, pretty sure something is up. I guess the question I have is, do I just act like nothing is wrong? Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I've only worked with the person for about a month now, nowhere close to being a real friend yet. Should I say/do anything? I'm pretty sure her family/friends are aware and I wouldn't be saying anything new. Or do I just move on? It's just awkward...
(edit: is it possible that some girls are just normally this skinny or something?)