Let's say you meet a male or female, who is perfect for you in almost every way. Height, weight, education level, looks, personality, morally, ethically, hobbies/interests, sex drive, but you get to make a choice; they can be either mentally stable or financially stable. Which do you choose, and why? As a NAMI member I want to say I would choose financially stable which means he might have mental health issues. But I dated a man with mental health issues which he refused to treat. Not sure I have the strength to deal with that again.