I am getting really tired of people's holier than thou attitude on this board when it comes to monogamy or the lack thereof. You'd think we were living in some neopuritanical society. What someone wants to do with their relationship is their own business unless they ask for your input on it, which the OP did not. If he wants another gf or fuck buddy and is asking for tips on how to get one and you don't approve of his practice, then just shut up and quit trying to impose your beliefs on everyone else. If someone asks your opinion on monogamy, then by all means give your opinion. Aside from that, these kinds of comments are condescending, uncalled for, and unwelcome. While I am posting this on this thread, I mean it to reflect on multiple other threads where this subject has come up. Not everyone is monogamous, and not everyone wants to be.