I have this huge problem and I don't know how to solve it. I am bi, and have been the last three years, but I have never fallen in love with another guy... until now. We went to school together for one year and I have told him my darkest secrets, who almost no-one else knows about. We have a very close friendship and I love spending time with him, because we're so much alike. Now, I think about him all the time and I think I love him. I want to tell him, but I don't know how he will react. I am not sure about his sexual orientation, because there are different signs. The one that tells me he's straight is: he's deeply religious (Christian). But on the other hand; he never talks about girls or sex. I guess he is straight, but I'm not 100% sure.
I care so much about him and I really want to tell him about my feelings, but I suppose that if I tell him and he doesn't have the same feelings for me, our friendship is destroyed forever. I don't wanna risk our friendship. What should I do?
I care so much about him and I really want to tell him about my feelings, but I suppose that if I tell him and he doesn't have the same feelings for me, our friendship is destroyed forever. I don't wanna risk our friendship. What should I do?