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Yes I know it’s a cliche. I’m into my friend that I have known for about a year now. We know each other through a mutual friend and we are co-workers. In the last year, our friendship has grown rapidly and it kinda has that “Unnatural closeness” to it. Our friends and co-workers see it and one time a co-worker called me out on my feelings for him, even tho she thinks I’m straight and said: “Yup, I think he likes him.” To which my crush replied, “I like what she’s thinking.” I was too embarrassed to say anything and let the conversation drop.
My feelings got to the point I came out to him. He smiled and said it’s okay nothing will change. So far nothing has. Except lately he has been texting more, which is unusual because everyone that knows him knows he sucks at texting. However, he has been texting me around midnight and we’ll text about work or common shows until 4 am.
When we first met and started to become friends I felt that magnetic look in his eyes a few times when we made eye contact. One time at the bar I even put on a fancy button-up shirt to see his reaction and he kinda stared at me and looked stargazed.
Here is the worst part I even saw under one of his common gay friends pics he comments “Wow, look at that ass!” And likes all and only his ass pics. My crush also uses a lot of gay terms sometimes, such as “thicck” or He’ll joke and say Thor or the Hulk is sexy or daddy. He’s not too feminine but he is kinda the pretty boy type.
So, it makes me wonder if he is into to me too. I want to confess my feelings, but I really don’t want to risk losing a friend. Do you guys think there is a chance?
My feelings got to the point I came out to him. He smiled and said it’s okay nothing will change. So far nothing has. Except lately he has been texting more, which is unusual because everyone that knows him knows he sucks at texting. However, he has been texting me around midnight and we’ll text about work or common shows until 4 am.
When we first met and started to become friends I felt that magnetic look in his eyes a few times when we made eye contact. One time at the bar I even put on a fancy button-up shirt to see his reaction and he kinda stared at me and looked stargazed.
Here is the worst part I even saw under one of his common gay friends pics he comments “Wow, look at that ass!” And likes all and only his ass pics. My crush also uses a lot of gay terms sometimes, such as “thicck” or He’ll joke and say Thor or the Hulk is sexy or daddy. He’s not too feminine but he is kinda the pretty boy type.
So, it makes me wonder if he is into to me too. I want to confess my feelings, but I really don’t want to risk losing a friend. Do you guys think there is a chance?