Just this morning, I finally started experimenting with my boyfriend towards anal sex. We have everything ready, tools wise..and the moment was right in starting us off (we're both virgins). Well, I tried sitting on him a little and managed to get his head in....then the girth kicked in against my hole. Just so ya know, he's 8" x 6+"... ....Seconds later, I was repeating 'ouch, omg' while making painful faces. :lol: I know I should be serious but this was a try out and I NEVER felt a sharp pain like that *shakes head* I'm usually a silly guy anyway, hence the weird faces. I know my big mistakes here were a. not using lube b. we were pressed for time. we need a whole night w/o a worry for either of us the next day (he had finals to do in under 8 hours) SO....I know I have to use lube, yes.....but anyone have some nice advice for me to use in future attempts? Thanks!!