In porn, why do men always finish their handjobs / blowjobs off ?

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  1. D_kutecuyug

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    You know, when they are just about to come they always do the last few strokes themself...

    Is it just to make sure it goes where they want?

    Personally I love it when the girl finishes you off, feels better I reckon :)
     
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    it is so annoying!! I love finishing a guy off... and i wanna see it on film,
    I treat it like my "reward"
    Do you get finshed off often?
     
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    :) simple.
     
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    When my husband pulls out he prefers me to finish it off. I've always wondered that myself. Good question! I guess that dont want her deciding she didnt want cum in her eye after all!
     
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    It's the "Money Shot", dude... It's what they are paid to do.

    Frankly, I'm glad they aren't hiding the salami when they shoot off.

    I want to see the prize.

    Onan
     
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    Why cant she use her own hands? Thats the question here. I hate facials but i think if the woman wacked the guy off herself into cumming on her face i'd tolerate it.
     
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    is it possible that its because these guys don't get especially turned on by the 'sex' they are having and so need a hand that knows exactly how to get the job done????

    its only a theory i have...
     
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    I think thats more of what it is. If i needed to hurry up and finish I know i'm the only one who could make it happen under that kind of pressure. I've seen them assume the open mouth hungry baby bird position and he starts to stroke it off and they edit the scene because it took a long time to pop.

    Make sense now. I forget porn guys arent like regular guys.
     
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    doing it oneself helps making a greater shot by holding a little while
     
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    I hate it in porn...it is just terrible


    that is probably the biggest turnoff there is, and it is pretty much standard these days.


    The reason is, that guys ultimately know what is best for producing the most powerfull, larger shot, from doing it through masturbation...

    in many older porn vids (and plenty these days)...sometimes the girl will slow down, or stop completely right as the ejaculation starts, leading to the inevitable cry of "Keep Stroking!!!!" or "Don't Stop!" or "Faster!"

    since girls really do not know how to operate the equipment, since they do not have it themselves, you would think that before hand the guy would demonstrate just what he likes, the speed, angle, wetness factor, hand positioning, grip, the motion etc.

    then the girl could actually know what to do and have a better idea...

    all guys like a different form of release, (some like fast, some slow, some like just the head, some like just the shaft, some like short strokes, some like long strokes, some like light grips some like hard grips, etc. etc. ) so it is very difficult for the gal to know (as i said, why not just give the gal a cheat sheet before the scene)

    when i was younger, i could always make myself cum at max about 12 big spurts, if i was masturbating, and could control it, and edge, etc. etc. but no matter how horny i was with any girl was i ever able to reach that same amount, though i would get reasonably close with the right girl.

    But on the whole, I much prefer the woman doing it, absolutely no matter what. So much better both in real life, and to watch on video.
     
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    I think thats more than lightly,its not easy getting your rocks off on cam,they deserve every penny they make these guys.
     
  12. D_kutecuyug

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    Hm, perhaps they are on a tight schedule n stuff... :p

    But Ive never finished myself off with a girl before... If Im having difficulty cuming I just start playing with her and it turns me on more so I cum quicker :)
     
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    I think they do it themselves because they can get themselves off easily and perform on a cue. It's nice to have someone else do it for you but if your job requires you produce a "money shot" on demand then I'd take the reigns myself. I'm sure they know their own bodies well enough to maximize their time reaching climax. I f fact, I saw a porno where Ron Jeremy could cum on command, he had someone do a countdown and finished on zero on the girls stomach.
     
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    gay male porn is the same, very rare to see man jerk off another man until he cums
     
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    well, I agree to some extent with the assertion that they can go on cue easier, but that is much less relevant these days with the ease of editing, and digital film so it is much less important as it was in the days of film.

    Most directors give the guy a "when you're ready" signal, and since digital is not expensive as film, there really is not much problem...


    but i think the gist of the original post, and what is most upsetting is when you see the girl (this happens very regularly) sucking or jerking like crazy for about a minute or two or 5 or 10...and 3 seconds before orgasm the guy grabs it away and jerks it off...that tells me that it is not about cue, but producing the exact right way for the guy to make the optimal shot.

    Unfortunately, today, most shots are so lame, that you might as well just let the girl do it anyway...

    it is far more attractive...

    it is so infuriating to be watching a great scene, and you know, most likely, 9 times out of 10, they are going to ruin everything with the guy jerking off.
     
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    you rarely see good handjobs in vids. Im amazed at how many women will be bobbing their head up and down senselessly and never think to use their hand and mouth at the same time? Its probably for this reason the guy takes over the job.

    Now this chick knows how to finish her man off! he he
     
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    Probably because he knows how to get himself and as in the real world, most girls don't know how or don't have the stamina to get a guy off.

    Also I think for pornstars it becomes monotonous/boring and makes it even harder for them to Gett Off.
     
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    she looks oddly familiar :confused:
     
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    Funny i thought she looked familiar too! Good thing her man doesnt have to give himself a hand there at the end huh?
     
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    It's funny that this type of thing happens in what I always thought primarily straight guy society. Maybe things are turning more towards gay guys now, since they are kinda gaining prominence in this world, and directors and stuff want to please them too, you know what I mean? Think about it... Broke Back Mountain, Gay Marriage, Dating shows with gays instead of straights. Its becoming more and more popular in our culture today.
    Whatchu think of that theory (It could be wrong...)?
     
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