In your face?

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  1. SassySpy

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    I hope this question isnt too personal, even for this board! But having only watched porn since the internet explosion, Ive seen quite a bit, Then I read a joke one day, something like 'men, contrary to what you see on video, a woman DOES NOT like it when you cum on her face.'

    Well its never been done to me, nor would I let it. I know I'd not like it. But, what is the general opinion? Do most women like it? Why do guys like it?

    I mean, I really enjoy giving head, really enjoy it immensely. And that too is a recently acquired skill. Im not very good at it with well endowed men, but go to town with average sized guys. I'd prefer to swallow, or have it on my chest, or have them enter my pussy, or just about anywhere but my face.

    Thoughts?
     
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    I prefer to have my load swallowed. I do tend to have a lot when i do ejaculate, so sometimes swallowing is more difficult bc i would need to be swallowed half way through my load or so. Its really what ever makes her the most comfortable, but my personal preferance is to be swallowed.

    I dont get much off into cummiing on a girls face or tits but if she likes it i would.

    I know this isnt a woman opinion but i just gave my 2 cents
     
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    I feel exactly the same way. Not on my face. Hell, I don't even like the way makeup feels on my face. Plus the mess of it getting in my hair and possibly up my nose...

    Also it seems disrespectful to me. I don't know why. Maybe because of how it's portrayed in porn, or conventional wisdom, or whatever.
     
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    I cant understand for the life of me why anyone would want to cum on someone else's face, or have their face cummed on... then again I dont understna dht eholw golden shower, scat thing either... I guess whatever gets you off...

    BTW, facials were pretty much invented by the porno industry; the "money shot" if you will. I wouldnt want anyone cumming on my face, and I would never cum on my girlfriend's face.

    I guess some girls like the warm sensation, but the cum goes cold and sticky after about 15 seconds, plus that would be a bitch to clean out of ones hair.

    I guess we'll have to chalk facials up to fetishes.:biggrin1:

    Also, I would prolly see it as disrespectful, along with cock slapping and, in some cases, blowjobs(like throat fucking, like the girl is nothing but a hunk of flesh put their to satisfy the man... thats not what sex is about)

    I'm all about male empowerment, but hitting a girl in the face with your dick just wont fly.

    FACIALS ARE FOR THE BIRDS!
     
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    With oral sex, I much prefer to swallow and can't think of a reason why I couldn't or wouldn't.

    Other than that, cumming on my body is fine with me pretty much anywhere except my face (okay...maybe my hair isn't the best place either). :biggrin1:
     
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    I have no problem with it. If i didnt feel respected by the guy then i wouldnt be with him to begin with. I do things to guys that could be view as alot more demeaning that cumming on my face and i mean absolutley now disrespect by it, so why should i feel offended when they want to do something so harmless to me. Sure it can be annoying to clean out of my hair, eyes and so forth but so what.
     
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    Personally, looking down at someone after I have came.... If it is all over their face, I feel like I did something wrong... like I made them "cheap" or degraded them in some way.

    It isn't a turn on in my book, and I would never make someone take my load on their face. They could swallow, if they wanted, but we could discuss that.:smile:
     
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    what a fabulous attitude lee. i'm not disrespecting anyone elses opinion or feelings, but the problem i have is that so many women find it so 'disrespectful'. i can completely understand not wanting to get a cum in an eye... or even your hair if its just washed (especially since many women don't clean their hair everyday)... but the whole 'disrespectful' thing sounds so odd to me. its sex for christsakes... and to me its completely natural... whether its on your thigh... stomach... back... tits... or face.

    oh yeah... and the porn industry didn't invent the facial. maybe they glorified it... but far from the first time it was done. women have cum on my face way more times than i can count... and i find it sexy and completely natural. as long as you're comfortable with your partner... i don't see any issue either way.
     
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    I felt indifferent about it... but after 4 hours and being still a newbie at the whole sex deal... I was happy he came so I could go to bed. As long as a guy respects that if it goes in my eyes thats the last time he sleeps with me, then it's good. But I don't think I would want anyone to make a habbit of it.
     
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    See, I suppose it is a matter of preference. Would you want someone to spit on your face? It is a similar idea. Spiting on someone show disrespect, pissing on someone (in my mind) would show disrespect.
    Cumming on someone's face, using them as a "rag" is appaling to me.

    To be honest, I blame porn. I have a HUGE problem with women who feel they have to come off as "cum-hungry, cock whores". It upsets me because, yes it is a personal preference but I can't get over the fact that the woman on screen is doing something (selling herself) so that a million plus men and women can eyeball her as a sexualized peice of meat.

    It doesn't get me off. I lose a bit of hardon if it happens, I actually try to blow before the end scene, just incase the man/woman may get blown on.
     
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    This is a really interesting point and kind of what I was getting at. Because porn has made some sex acts (like the facial) degrading, I can't help but see them that way. Equating a facial, or eating cum, or any sex act to being a "whore" really kills it for me. I don't really get why men, especially "normal nice guys", get off on seeing women as cum-guzzling sluts or whatever degrading terms these pornos use to advertise.

    I like porn, but I hate the whore/slut/bitch thing that seems to turn a lot of men (and probably a lot of women, too) on. It smacks of some kind of emotional desire to degrade women, even if it's sublimated to what pornography you prefer. Facials definitely go hand in hand in the porn industry with this sort of attitude, as does anal sex.

    I remember I was thinking of sleeping with this guy when I was in college when he nonchalantly told me about the theory that if you have anal sex with a girl, you own her. I was apalled and completely turned off. Looking back, it doesn't surprise me that this sort of thinking appealed to him because he is very misogynistic though he pretended not to be. It made me very wary of men that were into anal sex, to be honest.

    There are a lot of sex acts that are considered more degrading than others. Look at Max Hardcore, he uses anal and oral sex almost exclusively. I'm not saying either one are bad, just that in our culture certain things have become associated with degradation. Facials are one example. Add to that the fact that it's messy and can get in your eyes and hair, and I'm just not down for it at all.
     
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    We tried it once and neither one of us got anything out of it. Cumming inside her is more intimate.
     
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    Hey Sassy,
    IMO, I would *ahem shoot it where ever I was asked to, but I would never just assume to shoot it on a womans face, I would think that would be rude.
    IMO
     
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    I second, third, and fourth that. And it feels so good.
     
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    for me, it just depends on the girl...some girls i've been with just prefer to have me cum in their mouth...others say they have a dislike for the taste (altho i have been told that i'm rather tasteless (my cum, that is, not myself :rolleyes:)), so rather than cumming in their mouth they just say "cum anywhere but the face"...my guess is that its just a risk factor...cumming in the hair is a hassle, and the chance of cumming in the eye is a bitch too...so if my girl doesnt want to swallow, that just means it's going on her tits/stomach/...

    its not something that turns me on to the point where i'd prefer to cum on a girl than in a girl, but its definitely not a turn-off either...my preference has been for girls who are a bit tanner, or naturally darker-skinned, cuz i just find something very hot about seeing my white cum contrasted on the dark skin
     
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    This seems to be the sticking point for me too. I have my philosophy and all that about it, but when it comes down to it, I just don't like stuff on my skin or in my eyes. I hate the way makeup feels, as I said earlier, and any kind of lotion or moisturizer is even worse. I don't even like the way lotion feels on my hands. I'll live with the dry, cracked skin. In the shower, I don't mind water but I HATE having soap and shampoo on my face, hands and in my eyes. I'm a compulsive rinser. And I'm insane. :biggrin1:
     
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    Let's just say that I really have no interest in it, but at the same time if I were asked by her I probably would go thru with it. I would much rather put it elsewhere or best of all DEEEEEEEP inside her...

    I do LOVE when I make a girl cum when I am going down on her...she bucks uncontrollably and I am in that perfect rythem for her then POW...I catch it on the face. The best ones are when she's never done that before and she's shocked at herself LOL.

    I try not to get all caught up in the politics of sex...I hate to put PC labels on the timeless and primitive act we call sex. Since its really our only means of reproduction I am not at all alarmed that sometime, someplace, someone invented the facial or whatever.

    You either like it or you dont I guess...

    ...OB
     
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    I didn't need moisturizer until I hit 36 so i'm now slathering it on every evening. I don't mind having stuff rubbed into my skin. I don't like the feeling of anything being dropped into my eyes. I wear contact lenses much of the time and it hurts to get something lodged in my eye while wearing them and cum is no exception.

    I've heard that semen is supposed to be good for the skin. I wonder if that's true or if that's just a myth generated by the porn industry to make facials more acceptable (it's a conspiracy! :eek:). I guess if the porn industry created it you'd see the women massaging it into their skin afterwards.
     
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    Most of the time when a guy shoots in your open mouth, it dribbles down your chin, its all over your lips..and most guys eat that up, they love it.

    Yet mention just shooting on a face with no mouth or swallowing involved and suddenly its degrading :confused:
     
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