Inability to repeat within a reasonable sex session a deal breaker?

[Tattooed Goddess]

Cheesus. Cheesus christ. More men doubting the female answers here.

One day there will be no female members here if our answers are considered bullshit. What's the point anymore?

 

[5104]

Do you see how many women are even active in the forums vs. how many female members there are on the site at all? This isn't exactly a place to conduct research.

You shouldn't come here looking for a certain *type of answer. We're not here to feed YOUR biases.

ETA: If you read my first post, and think that came from a place of bias... that's just sad. I meant that shit, just like every other conversation I have here. No bullshit from this bitch.

I only meant biased in the sense of a statistically biased sample. Just wondering.

 

[5104]

Cheesus. Cheesus christ. More men doubting the female answers here.

One day there will be no female members here if our answers are considered bullshit. What's the point anymore?

Not accusing anyone of bullshit. Wondering about statistically biased sample. Yeah, not really the place for valid statistical research. However, AlteredEgo just balanced it out so it more closely matches my personal sample of decades.

 

[5104]

Or maybe you're biased/have hang ups. I don't know many longtime female users on LPSG who bullshit about anything to spare anyone's egos.

Didn't accuse anyone of personal bias. I was talking statistical sample bias.

 

[5104]

@LloydBaker , nice to see you out and about.

I prefer very long sessions with lots of repeats, but rarely have the time. I just need the dude to care about my satisfaction, and see to it, one way or another.

If he finishes too quickly and cannot repeat, THAT might be a problem. In your scenario, you mention that the initial performance leaves the poster satisfied. Why would satisfaction be a deal breaker? Why does it not being a deal breaker read to you as a contradictory view to your encounters of women who mention repeating as a positive? Why couldn't repeat performance still be a bonus AND an inability or lack of desire to go multiple times in one session still be acceptable?

Yeah, I could have worded it better. Basically I was getting at your 1st sentence. . ..

 

[5104]

Until AlteredEgo posted, no one confirmed my experience. No criticism implied! Sorry, gang!

 

[5104]

If he finishes too quickly and cannot repeat, THAT might be a problem.

Maybe that's where my personal experience most often arose!

 

[693987]

My only complaint about men who don't have a short refractory period has been if I haven't gotten mine at all and they don't make any effort (whether with hands or toys) to make sure I get mine.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Until AlteredEgo posted, no one confirmed my experience. No criticism implied! Sorry, gang!

It's all good.

I misunderstood your post. I accept your apology, and offer you one of my own.

Thanks for the clarification.

 

[5104]

My only complaint about men who don't have a short refractory period has been if I haven't gotten mine at all and they don't make any effort (whether with hands or toys) to make sure I get mine.

Back in the day, it seems there was an unwritten rule "not to ask the woman" if she had an orgasm perhaps on the theory "you should know" without asking, asking is harassment, etc. I remember of movie ridiculing men who ask. I am pretty old. Maybe this has changed or I didn't really understand the etiquette back then. Of course, there was a tendency "not to want to know" on the part of the male. I was probably guilty of that in many cases. . . or "she would tell me if she wanted me to know."

I certainly, in many cases, would have been willing to do whatever she wanted.

 

[5104]

I certainly, in many cases, would have been willing to do whatever she wanted.

I remember one woman asking for oral after she reported not having an orgasm.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Or maybe you're biased/have hang ups. I don't know many longtime female users on LPSG who bullshit about anything to spare anyone's egos.

Indeed. I find we occasionally do the opposite, and spare no BS no matter what happens to the delicate ego involved.

So long as both partners are satisfied at the end of the day, what's it matter how it happened?
Is he a stay hard for hours but only shoot once sort? Is he able to repeat? Doesn't matter to me as long as he is caring, compassionate, and GGG himself.

 

[950483]

I don't think I've ever had a repeat with my partner and I don't care. He always keeps going, and puts the effort in until I have an orgasm at least once, and often a few times, depending on what we're doing. Amazing self control! It doesn't tend to take him very long once I've finished, which makes me wonder what he really thinks about while we are having sex. Cars probably.

 

[950483]

Back in the day, it seems there was an unwritten rule "not to ask the woman" if she had an orgasm perhaps on the theory "you should know" without asking, asking is harassment, etc. I remember of movie ridiculing men who ask. I am pretty old. Maybe this has changed or I didn't really understand the etiquette back then. Of course, there was a tendency "not to want to know" on the part of the male. I was probably guilty of that in many cases. . . or "she would tell me if she wanted me to know."

I certainly, in many cases, would have been willing to do whatever she wanted.

How old is "pretty old"?

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Back in the day, it seems there was an unwritten rule "not to ask the woman" if she had an orgasm perhaps on the theory "you should know" without asking, asking is harassment, etc. I remember of movie ridiculing men who ask. I am pretty old. Maybe this has changed or I didn't really understand the etiquette back then. Of course, there was a tendency "not to want to know" on the part of the male. I was probably guilty of that in many cases. . . or "she would tell me if she wanted me to know."

I certainly, in many cases, would have been willing to do whatever she wanted.

Back in the day, women couldn't get bank accounts.

I'm seeing a man who came of age in Selfishguyland. He owns that and is a great communicator about wants and needs. He's also one of the most compassionate lovers I've ever had. And I've been very lucky overall. So this speaks highly of him.
Your time and space set the parameters of experience, but they do not have to limit your growth.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Cheesus. Cheesus christ. More men doubting the female answers here.

One day there will be no female members here if our answers are considered bullshit. What's the point anymore?

To speak truth.

 

[5104]

How old is "pretty old"?

Uh, 71.

 

[5104]

I don't think I've ever had a repeat with my partner and I don't care. He always keeps going, and puts the effort in until I have an orgasm at least once, and often a few times, depending on what we're doing. Amazing self control! It doesn't tend to take him very long once I've finished, which makes me wonder what he really thinks about while we are having sex. Cars probably.

I used to think about calculus. Now I struggle to remember I'm having sex.

 

[5104]

Back in the day, it seems there was an unwritten rule "not to ask the woman" if she had an orgasm perhaps on the theory "you should know" without asking, asking is harassment, etc. I remember of movie ridiculing men who ask. I am pretty old. Maybe this has changed or I didn't really understand the etiquette back then. Of course, there was a tendency "not to want to know" on the part of the male. I was probably guilty of that in many cases. . . or "she would tell me if she wanted me to know.

OH! Here's another one: "Maybe she was faking? Better not ask which would be pressing her to lie."

 

[Holly Doors]

I wouldn't say it's a deal breaker no @LloydBaker , but I do seem to have a big appetite for sex, my husband recovers fairly quickly and we have some fantastic long sessions, I always find myself ready to go again too even if when I'm sore and uncomfortable. we do always reach a point though where we somehow both know we're satisfied and spent which is kinda cool, I don't think it would be good to spoil things and go beyond what we couldn't better physically. I guess it's horses for courses really and people get to know what each other is capable of!
I have had relationships with guys that could only manage it twice or three times a week and only when sober though and I will admit I didn't like that at all, but that's just me!