Incentive And Motivation

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What was your motive to become, and being gay?

1. Just curious. which led me to take the first step, to see why it's so voluptuous, though rather painful to be de-virginized by one's dick.

2. Jealousy, because the other guy had a bigger dick, and I grab him to see what a fat dick feels like. Which led me to my first cock sucking, and my first dick fucking.

3. In a group, where everyone was jerking off, which led to a mutual jerk exchange, and choosing one, where we secretly fucked, to see if there was any sweetness in the whole affair.

4. I found myself in the unfortunate position of being raped by an older horny man. But I liked it afterwards, and gave in to his appetites. That's how I ended up being a fag.

5. Because I like doing sex without a condom. So any spill of cum in a guy's hole, there is no anxiety of pregnancy.

As of my case, I fall in the number 3 choice, which I did with a cute guy. While making sex with girls, was still going on too.







 

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Uh?

I can't even understand the question!

I am gay not by any choice or situation that happened in my life. But I knew that the idea of being intimate wth a man was appealing when I was just 9 years old when I was taking swimming classes and swimming directly toward the crotch of my swim coach who was squatted pool-side.
 

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I hate when ignorant people (not meant in a bad way) think being gay is a choice. I am gay because God made me that way just like he makes hetro people. I am a special person. This question is like someone asking you, "Why did you choose to have a small dick?"
 

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My husband, who is handicapped by cerebral palsy, had a cab driver many years ago who said, " What the hell happened to your legs?"

Husband replied, "Same thing that happened to your brain!"

Cab driver looked totally puzzled and Husband finished the thought, "Paralyzed!"
 

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Are you sure you don't mean, "what led you to realize you are gay?"

No one "becomes" gay; any more than someone becomes blue-eyed. They always have been.

As I said, I became a gay. after those few mutual jerking with my classmates and friends. So I went a step further, with one of the guys. after his initiative. whom I liked then, and done it, all the way.
 

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You don’t just decide to be gay. This question displays an ignorance of how biology/psychology work. And it’s a popular right wing talking point. Their reasoning goes, in a nutshell, “Well being gay is a choice so if you chose to be gay you can choose to not be gay again.” Which has spelled disaster for thousands of gay kids sent to “conversion camps” where they are psychologically (and sometimes actually physically) tortured, and they come out tremendously damaged. Educate yourself.
 
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You don’t just decide to be gay. This question displays an ignorance of how biology/psychology work. And it’s a popular right wing talking point. Their reasoning goes, in a nutshell, “Well being gay is a choice so if you chose to be gay you can choose to not be gay again.” Which has spelled disaster for thousands of gay kids sent to “conversion camps” where they are psychologically (and sometimes actually physically) tortured, and they come out tremendously damaged. Educate yourself.
Absolute agreement with you there. I think the OP might not have English as his primary language, so I'm not totally sure he meant that the way it sounded. I'm just assuming, though.
 

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I did not become gay, I was born that way. However, I did decide to start living as an "out" gay man rather than just keeping my feelings to myself. One of the best decisions I've ever made. It was very easy for me to deny my sexuality and not act on it with anybody, but honestly life is too short!
 
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As I said, I became a gay. after those few mutual jerking with my classmates and friends. So I went a step further, with one of the guys. after his initiative. whom I liked then, and done it, all the way.

You did not 'become gay,' - you realized it after the jerks. You always were gay, you merely decided to act on it, you did not decide to 'become' gay. If we apply you logic to other choices you will become black after liking Drake. It just does not work that way. Conversely there are gay people who would not want to jerk off with other men but that does not mean they are not straight.

You have no choice on what you are in terms of orientation. You have a choice about how you do or do not act on it.