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Friends this is a very real issue, I'm sure not only to me. I've been in a relationship for about a year with a great guy who loves me, no doubt. We're not kids anymore and he assures me he's never loved anyone like he loves me. I didn't think I'd find love again and in him I have. There is this one huge problem, he talks incessantly. It seems if he is awake he thinks words have to be coming out of his mouth. Even though I love him very much, quite honestly, it drives me insane. If he has a story to tell, even a lengthy one, it is not just that. Every possible molecule of information he can possible think of is shared and even more than that if he can think of it. He says this trait runs in his family and he was born with it. He knows he has this problem but can't control it. He knows it grates on my nerves. To me it is sheer torture. It is like anything else constant, that is a distraction or irritation to anyone. It is worst while talking on the phone. I stopped him once and told him he'd been talking constant for 23 minutes and I'd said "yeah" three times. He is nearly powerless to stop this. He told me once (about someone else) this is a mental disorder of the mind. He doesn't think he is as bad as someone else, even though that doesn't matter. I've considered breaking it off with him because I literally can't stand the thought of having to bear it for the rest of my life, as we are talking about getting married.
Does anyone out there have an experience like this? I wouldn't mind hearing your story, but more so hearing if anyone knows if there are meds that can control this type of disorder. It seems to me what he needs is something to slow his brain down. His brain and thoughts run 100 miles per hour at all times. He needs help and I don't want to lose him.
But, I can't take it much longer. In truth there is no way I can describe what an epic problem this is for me.
Does anyone out there have an experience like this? I wouldn't mind hearing your story, but more so hearing if anyone knows if there are meds that can control this type of disorder. It seems to me what he needs is something to slow his brain down. His brain and thoughts run 100 miles per hour at all times. He needs help and I don't want to lose him.
But, I can't take it much longer. In truth there is no way I can describe what an epic problem this is for me.