I'm perfectly normal size when hard, about 6"' but soft I'm very small lengthwise and girth wise. It's embarassing; and actually uncomfortable--my penis can easily shrink back into itself when wearing anything nor very loose. Wish I had a bigger soft package. I once tried a jes-extender, but it was pretty uncomfortable and didn't stay on very well--and I thought it was difficult to figure out how to use. Has anyone had success with other stretching devices? I'd prefer one I could use while around the house, rather than being tied down to having to sit and use it.