Increasing Penis Sensitivity?

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  1. Hung_MN

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    Hey guys, I'm just wondering if there are known ways to increase penis sensitivity.

    I have zero problem getting aroused, and my dick always gets rock hard, and have no problem jacking off... but it seems that when it comes to fucking or getting a blowjob, I get very little sensation.

    I would love to be able to get off from a BJ or fucking like everyone else haha, any advice is much appreciated!

    Side note: Any advice to make my nips more senstive too would also be great!

    (also, i can imagine some of you might say the problem is that I'm not comfortable with whatever guy i'm with, and I assure you thats not it lol)
     
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    Only four guys could suck me off in my 20's; all older and very experienced. They watched me JO and learned what my dick likes. Younger guys grow impatient and give up more easily, though they are nice to look at.

    For fucking, you might try JO to the point-of-no-return, then inserting. After a while, you can insert earlier and earlier until your dick "learns" how to cum from something other than your hand.

    Good luck!
     
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    I agree with this as well. Not that you jerk off too much, but maybe transition into sucking or fucking more, and jerking less.
     
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    Thanks for the inputs guys, I've thought jacking off less would help too, but here's a weird thing... whenever I jack off with lube I get very little sensation as well, I always jack without lube, a lot of people think that's weird being that I'm cut, but its the only way I can get off... which leads me to believe its some sort of sensitivity issue
     
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    I've been considering getting my nipples pierced because I heard that it can sometimes increase sensitivity. Other than that you're probably stuck with the way your body works.

    As far as your penis goes, I've read about these little cones you can wear when soft if you aren't cut tightly. They cover your head as if you had foreskin and allegedly if you wear it enough you'll notice your head getting shiny again as it loses the protective keratin layer that develops as a result of circumcision.
     
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    Perhaps you should be jacking off with lube more, then? And perhaps with a lighter grip? After being with a couple of cut guys (and being on this forum as long as I have), it seems like cut guys who use kung-fu grip while jacking get used to a pretty extreme level of sensation, and then have difficulty orgasming through other means. Perhaps easing down on the throttle and getting used to a lighter touch is a good idea? After all, your hands will be able to get a lot tighter and rougher than just about anything else you'll put your dick into, right?
     
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    Supplements can help too. Yohimbe, Saw Palmetto with Pygeum, Horny Goat Weed, Maca, L-Arginine, Tribulus Terrestris to name a few. Arginimax from GNC works good I know you don't need help with erections but the sensitivity I felt especially on the head of the penis and the better ejaculations were good too (more gushing, ropes of cum, pygeum helps with pre cum too).
     
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    I think you just nailed your problem. It sounds like you're used to dry jerking for getting off and since both blowjobs and fucking are "wet" so to speak, you're probably not used to the sensations and that's why you cant cum.

    It is not unusual for guys to prefer a certain way of jerking from an early age (lube vs dry, jerking vs thrusting etc) and then this causes problems down the road with partners since you're used to what you're used to. My BF had a similar issue where he couldn't cum with anyone else because he had a very specific way of jerking. Usually the way to correct this is to gradually introduce the new method. In my BF's case, over about 5 months we worked at it and eventually he was able to cum for the first with my jerking him off.

    You might want to try introducing lube in your jerking in order to get used to the "wet" sensation. What kind of lube have you tried in the past? Spit? Oil? Can you not cum at all with lube? Or it just takes a lot of work? Maybe try starting off dry and then switching to lube as you get closer to cumming. Over time your brain will become used to the different sensations.
     
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    stop masturbating for 2/3 weeks.Dont look at porn either, its your brain not your cock that is the problem.
     
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    I eye this thread with interest, as I have quite the same matter at hand.
     
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    See if you can keep the head covered as much as possible. Works for me. The cones mentioned by Otep can help.

    Also, when you jack off, how tight is your grip?
     
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    i have the EXACT same problem! i have no problem getting aroused and getting myself off, but its so hard for someone else to get me off, it makes me uncomfortable so i just always end up jerking myself off after getting my guy to cum. its like it isn't sensitive for anyone else- i can barely feel it in someone's mouth :/
     
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    That sounds to me like your dick might be used to really heavy stimulation. Perhaps try easing up on it for a while, let it get used to more varied pressure?
     
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    Are you wearing loose underwear ? If so, consider wearing underwear that doesn't let your head rub all day, with a soft fabric that doesn't geerate much sensation.

    When you wear loose boxers, your brain learns to ignore the constant rubbing. (a bit like when yu enter a restaurant, you initially smell the restaurant a lot but eventually you don't notice the smell anymore).

    Folks are right that thsi is mostly in the brain, but there are different parts of it that come into play. Obviously the sexual part plays a huge role, but there are also autonomc portions that may have been conditioned to tone down the sensations you get so you don't constantly get erect during the day.
     
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    Do you know you can find these? I suffer from lack of sensitivity to penis head and would try anything any more suggestion? When I fuck my wife I only cum occasionally which results in frustration. I can fuck till dooms day but cannot cum except occassionally. I appreciate your feedback!
     
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    Notaes, Ron Low is a strong advocate for ending circumcision. He has created products for foreskin restoration, including the YourSkin Cone, which are available on his website at http://tlctugger.com/your-skin-cone/. You will need loose shaft skin first to get it to work. It may not seem worth the effort but once you commit you'll never look back. Upon the head getting its shine back you will be surprised at what feeling has been missing; in fact, it might actually be too much at first. But you will adjust and be glad you achieved it. I have been restoring slowly since 2007 and have seen such an incredible vast improvement.
     
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    Definitely agree with easing up on the grip when jacking, use a very light grip with your weaker hand..Has made a big difference for me.

    Horny goat weed with make your head hot n sensitive.... Take the max dose for 10 days to build it up in ur system... then cycle it, 2-3 days on, 2-3 days off so you dont become immune to its effects.
     
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    Definitely agree with easing up on the grip when jacking, use a very light grip with your weaker hand..Has made a big difference for me.

    Horny goat weed with make your head hot n sensitive.... Take the max dose for 10 days to build it up in ur system... then cycle it, 2-3 days on, 2-3 days off so you dont become immune to its effects.
     
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    Hi,your body has learn this as the way to cum (maybe for the presure,...),you should try to change your masturbation technique and "re-condicionating" the way you feel this sensibility.

    I explain : when one is used to somekind of stimulation,inconsciously can avoid to feel diferents sensation.
    It is Something than is common on nipples : most of us are so conditionated to penis pleasure than ignore the sensations of other parts,almost if they are subtle.
    Some time ago my nipples were a dead zone.After sone nipple play (you must be relaxed and simply focus on whatever you feel from them).
    Now my nipples are very very sensitive.

    It seems one have to "learn",or "relearn" our body signals .

    Ah,they are also devices for make the blood go to the nipple,making them harder and more sensitive.
    I recomend "supple nips": they are no cheaper but most people i know than use them are too happy .
    It is cuious because the presure they make are no strong,but i am unable to let them on my nipples because i feel too sensitive (what before was a "dead zone".
    Good luck!
     
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