Increasing Sexual Pleasure for Males

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  1. B_blackkid

    B_blackkid New Member

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    It's been a while. That's beyond the point however.

    I've had sex, but don't find it terribly gratifying; I wonder if there is any way whether chemically or through other physical means ( excercise ) or meditation even that I can increase my own sexual pleasure.

    I have been circumcised however which is supposedly the cause in my own opinion to my dilemma.

    Help is appreciated.
     
  2. Bbucko

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    I was circumcised as a newborn and still find intense sexual satisfaction. In fact, I find I'm generally having better sex now than when I was in my mid-20s.

    Some tips that might help:

    1) Know what your body likes and get it. Your sexuality is more than your dick, it can and should encompass more than just your dick. Some guys love their feet fondled or sucked. Some guys are (nearly) all ass. For me, it's that my nipples are hard-wired and titplay is a requirement.

    2) Know what your mind likes and find it. Explore fetishes and/or experiment with roleplay. Your brain is your biggest sex organ, after all.

    3) Find a partner who appreciates your inner freak. Nothing to me is worse than sex with the wrong person, which means someone who doesn't "get" me or my needs.

    4) Sex is more than orgasm, especially more than ejaculation. Focusing on cumming can turn a romp into a slog. If you need to cum each time, then find a trigger and have it ready for when the inevitable is desirable. Allowing someone five minutes at the end of a session to reach orgasm is fair play and the badge of a generous lover. Ten or fifteen minutes (or more) watching him jerk off is a tedious bore.

    5) Try something new. Be creative. Push your limits and those of your partner, but respect prediscussed guidelines. What worked five years ago might not work now.

    6) Pay attention to environment. What music is playing? How is the lighting? Is the room where you're playing romantic and fun or disheveled and distracting? Do you have enough privacy?

    7) Reconsider that cocktail or joint or bump. My best sex is sober.

    8) Are you comfortable with your body? Either work out more or learn to love yourself as you are, but little private insecurities about your appearance can effect how you feel about sharing your body with someone else.

    9) Limit your sexual activity to when you're really horny. Not everyone needs it every second. Find your natural rhythms and honor them. Men's hormones peak and ebb just like women's. Try and make each encounter something special and memorable.
     
  3. horneyoldguy

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    Bbucko says it all.
     
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    You have certainly received some good and appropriate advice. Take it easy and enjoy life and do not be afraid to experiment with your body and it's equipment.
     
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    I am going to assume that you are a bit younger then Hung or me, and I am almost as old as Hung. He is right when he says experiment with your body. In this case, your cock, anus, and prostate. So, to help you learn about pleasuring your body, I have listed several web sites should help with this.

    http://advancedmasturbation.com

    http://www.tantricmasturbation.net

    http://www.jackinworld.com/library/articles/tantric.html

    http://www.jackinworld.com/library/articles/tantric.html

    http://ezinearticles.com/?Learn-More-About-Prostate-Stimulation&id=705229

    http://www.adult-chitchat.com/index.php
     
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    Tantric is the shit. Unbelievable and even though you haven't shot a load you feel like you don't need to. It's like an extended plateau stage and some really wild stuff happens. There is so much more to sex than seeking a cum shot.

    Definitely get The Joy of Gay Sex and, if you have a spare $325 burning a hole in your pocket, sign up for Celebrating the Body Erotic.
     
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