Inexperienced bottom

[Maddhux]

Hi,

I just started seeing this guy that I really like and he's a top and I'm a bottom. The problem is that I'm not that experienced with bottoming and sex in general, he's dick is about 7inch which is a lot to handle.
He can only fuck me once every 2 weeks because my hole is not used to getting his size, and afterwards I need some time for my hole to relax and to get back to normal so that he can fuck me again.
What best ways to get used to his size and not feel discomfort/pain after having sex?
I tried sex toys such as butt plugs, but that's not always the best option.
Any suggestions? Also, is there a lotion or cream that I can apply to ease the discomfort feel after having sex?

 

[UKguycurious]

Hey. Have you tried poppers to help you relax there?

 

[Maddhux]

Hey. Have you tried poppers to help you relax there?

I've tried poppers before and they are not my thing

 

[theplayerking]

Hi,

I just started seeing this guy that I really like and he's a top and I'm a bottom. The problem is that I'm not that experienced with bottoming and sex in general, he's dick is about 7inch which is a lot to handle.
He can only fuck me once every 2 weeks because my hole is not used to getting his size, and afterwards I need some time for my hole to relax and to get back to normal so that he can fuck me again.
What best ways to get used to his size and not feel discomfort/pain after having sex?
I tried sex toys such as butt plugs, but that's not always the best option.
Any suggestions? Also, is there a lotion or cream that I can apply to ease the discomfort feel after having sex?

What is your problem with butt plugs? I find the work very well if used consistently every few days and then a couple of hours before getting fucked.

 

[WillowJaduka]

Try some tips from this youtuber to see if it works

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[goldscorpguy]

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I have several of his videos saved, he gives a lot of sensible, plain advice.
His one on anal dilators is also good.
A set of dilators is worth considering, much easier to use than butt plugs if you are consistently tight or anxious about being fucked.

 

[Robert Dole]

What is your problem with butt plugs? I find the work very well if used consistently every few days and then a couple of hours before getting fucked.

Start small and regularly so you get used to having something in there, after a week you'll be used to it and can increase the size a bit. Be patient and use lots of lube

 

[big-e-low]

You have already experienced it so to make it more familiar get to know yourself with yourself get some form of lubricant and just put it on your finger and slide it in yourself work your way up to more fingers explore yourself touch yourself with your other hand watch porn have a drink or put on incense or a candle explore yourself touch your own body find what relaxes you and then when you bottom tell the top to do the things you found relaxed you the body responds so well to memory of what we felt before and heard and or smelled before that we had pleasure from

 

[BigOrSmall69]

Hey. Have you tried poppers to help you relax there?

Don’t get into poppers it’s a stimulant and too much and do damage to your brain and your heart

 

[BigOrSmall69]

Bottoming can be good but few times can be a. Little sore next morning.. m
Shouldn’t take two weeks to get better

But I found out if I fingered myself couple days after sex it helps work out the soreness ..

Sometimes if stayed the night with the guy.. we’d wake up next morning and he’d slide it in and it would hurt at first but would start feeling better

But if still hurting after two week!! Need to get checked out