Initial penetration observation

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  1. RawDog

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    Anyone who's followed most of my posts knows my wife is extremely multi-orgasmic, but I've noticed something that I dare say, is the most unusual thing about her. Unusual in a good way, that is.

    First off, I make sure she's nice and lubed up before I first penetrate her with my cock. A combination of her cumming (insuring she's produced her own lube) and spit (both from oral), my fingers in her (rubbing her g-spot) to make sure her muscles are at ease with the penetration, and a generous lathering of bottled lube around my tip, along the shaft, and on her introitus. When I first ease my dick into her, it's always tightest. About halfway in, I can feel her pussy being uncooperative and, as slowly as possible, push into her, wait for her to relax, and push deeper into her. Occasionally, I pull out a tad bit to move the lube around inside. I notice the entrance is always the most "stubborn" to relax and the deep areas inside her, the most lubed up. Sucking her juices up to the entrance gives us the best chances of easing in further with the least amount of discomfort.

    This process takes about a minute from first entering her to full depth insertion. This is where it gets most interesting. The last inch is usually the most disconcerting for me as it seems like ("seems like" is important here), it seems like she's in an extreme amount of pain until she gets really vocal and pulls me deeper into her. She starts writhing and her pussy swallows me up for that last inch. In and out, slow, little nudges as she's muffling her screams. An almost agonizing, orgasmic stifled scream. I'm just there supporting myself (if I'm on top), or supporting her (if she's on top), almost totally motionless while she handles all the hip grinding movement.

    After she's done with this orgasm and she's fully engulfed me, one of us, more often than not me, just whispers, "Wow". Smiling back at me, her coolest response, thus far has been, "Welcome home."

    How unusual is it for women to have their first PIV (penis in vagina) orgasm be during the initial penetration?
     
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    It's probably pretty unusual... it's only happened to me when I've already been close to orgasm before the penetration.

    An ex-girlfriend of my bloke's apparently used to orgasm every single time he penetrated her... he said it got annoying (for him) because the spasms pushed him out again every time and they could never get a rhythm going!
     
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    I dated one girl who did that every time. Another girl did it on a few occasions. I thought it was pretty hot, and once I knew it was coming, I could make sure to brace for it so I could stay in, which they both said made the orgasms even more intense.
     
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    You HAVE to feel so awesome to be able to do that for her.

    I love, love, love, being able to give women orgasm's. One of the things I miss the very most about my recent former gf, was the multiple orgasms she would have while we were making love.
     
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    That's probably what's happening with her as well. She doesn't have to "reset" her orgasmic cycle. Once she cums the first time, it's like a chain reaction.

    Now, I can understand if she's tilting her hips up as she's cumming. Up and away from his cock as he's pressing into her, but squeezing his cock out? Interesting.

    Maybe it's the shape of my dick, it's more like a baseball bat. When she squeezes down, it feels like she's pulling me further inside her.

    I'm glad others have done this too! (thanks bigjpgh). I feel some of our friends thinks we're bullshitting when I tell them.
     
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    Being a guy, sometimes the initial penetration can feel the best. But I just wish I could give a girl an orgasm with my cock no matter how it's done :(
     
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    I'm bumping this because I need to know if this happens to anyone else.
     
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    I do it every time (no surprises there!).
     
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    *feigns surprise*:eek:

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    Rare for me as it seems dependent upon a combination of partner, timing, and arousal. I agree with most of what you wrote about the sequence of achieving full penetration, but I would have to emphasize that it takes a bit longer; a totally motionless partner isn't necessary; and my initial pleasure is less hyperbolic (steady increase in pleasure/comfortability over time, not a rapid "omgcum").
     
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    my wife would sometimes cum when I was 1/2 way in. a couple times I was working my cock head in and she came. she admitted she was quite horny, and got really turned on by looking at me do yard work with just a pair of shorts on. this was when we were younger. I had long hair, tall, slim, would get real tan/brown in the summer. she said she got that feeling before we met when she saw me, but she said once we were dating, she got real horny cuz she knew what was in my pants. she said she & her gfs would see me and dare each other as to who was going to date me first and who was going to fuck me first. she was the only one that was forward or bold enough, the rest were too shy.

    normally, she takes a lot of foreplay and pile driving before she cums the first time, and if I hold off from blasting a nut, she'll cum the second time pretty easy.
     
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    No surprise, but still worth saying out loud so I don't feel like a liar.

    Wow, convincing! :biggrin1:

    With MrsR it's still borderline pain/pleasure threshold even after all these years. Although she still says a lot of it is emotional too. Funny enough if we've completely soaked ourselves with lube with no foreplay I can easily slip in and give her an orgasm before I touch bottom. And it is less difficult to achieve full penetration if we don't have any foreplay beforehand.
     
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    It depends on how worked up I am. If we've been out and teasing and dirty talking and the anticipation is to the level of volcanic I can start coming immediately. The best way for me to achieve this right off the bat is if he slowly edges his way in and pushes as far as he can go into me and holds it there. It feels so good (sooo good) that I just have to squeeze down on his cock with my muscles a few times and things start rockin' and I'm screaming into the pillow. It's super tight at this point and if he moves slightly back out it's like my pussy is sucking hard on his cock and just refuses let go. It sometimes hurts a little but the pleasure far outweighs the pain.

    One of the first times we did it and this occurred he asked me if he hurt me and if I was alright? A breathy, "Oh, yeah ... oh yeah." is all I could muster. Because he's so big he's very cautious and worries he'll hurt me considering my diminutive frame. I've had to teach him that I'm not so fragile and that as long as he takes the time to get me excited I welcome all he's got to give and he can have at. And if I do come right away it's inevitable that I'll be riding the waves to another one soon after once he starts pounding into me.

    I'm getting hot just talking about this shit. Sometimes this site comes in handy.
     
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    I should help you out sometime
    reading that it actually seems liek we might have already had sex lol
    :eek:)
     
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    At the moment I have more inches coming at me than I can handle but I'll keep you in mind if things go flaccid. =)
     
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    Think it has to do with the foreplay. There have been times my wife came with my toungue action, again when I put my cock in and then again while I fucked and came.

    I don't know about the rest of you guys but this capability for a women to have multiple orgasims makes me just a little envious.
     
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    A lot of this hit home with me. My wife is similar, though not quite the same. The prep work is essential. She has to have had an orgasm from oral first. Though the lube is less essential for us. A few years back she even talked me into trying without artificial lube (but still natural, hers and mine), and it became even more intense for her and that last part about the final inch started happening with regularity. And yes, I stay motionless exception for the slow, gentle penetration and stay motionless, upon full penetration until she has finished her orgasm.

    We've tried replecating it with a dildo but can't. so I wonder if some of it is psychological, but not sure.

    Some women simply can't handle intercourse after having such an orgasm. They are too sensitive. Luckily my wife isn't one of them.

    She says sometimes there is some pain upon full penetration, but the pleasure far exceeds it.

    This happened the first time we had sex, and it freaked me out as I thought I was tearing her up or something. But she put me at ease after she caught her breath, and got over her own shock over it happening.
     
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    Coming with penetration is very possible for me, but only when/if I have a partner who's hung (girth has a lot to do with it). I had a brief relationship with one guy who was a perfect physical match - as soon as he began to enter me, I'd start coming, every single time. Foreplay and teasing help a lot, as well as flirting... the longer the sexual tension continues, the more worked up I get and the more intense the sex becomes.

    RawDog, sounds like you and your lady have a great thing going!
     
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    *giggles*


    You know I'll always back you up in threads like this :kiss:
     
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    Man, I totally have vagina envy. If I could be a woman for a day (with the attraction to guys included), I would be paying dudes to fuck me. Either that, or I'd immediately go to the nearest porn shop, and get as many dildos and vibrators as I could stuff into a bag and run to a secluded area.
    Multiple. Orgasms.
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    Digression.
    I just posted a brief tid about size and blah, blah. Included within this post, was me saying that from day one, I have tried to have extended foreplay with many fingers included. This is to A. Make sure that she is in the mood. B. Make sure that my dick doesn't hurt her.
    I couldn't help but wonder throughout the OP's.... OP, if he actually goes through the process of fingering and loosening.

    Besides that. ^ I don't think that I've ever gone balls deep ever, let alone within the initial penetration. With first penetration, I try to stick with half for a while before I actually start thrusting, but it also depends on the cues that she is giving me. However, now that you've started talking about it, next time I have sex, I'll go in as far as possible with first thrust, and I'll report back on the results.

    First penetration orgasms in general? Yes. I've been fortunate enough to have been with several wonderful women who just wouldn't quit cumming. Not, always, but generally, it has been an immediate in-and-cum sort of deal. Gouging, freezing, biting, hyperventilation, and screaming have all been byproducts of such an act. I have also been with several women who would cum every time I hit bottom. They described it as pain, but really good pain that confused their body.

    After thinking about this, and typing it out, I've come to realize that I've been severely lucky with some of the women that I've been with.... :D
     
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