Well i haven't had a sexual experience yet so I promised myself it's about time to start, 19 btw. I completely turned myself around over the past year. I worked on my image(bodybuilding etc.), confidence, and game. I have no problem meeting and picking up chicks, dating, etc. Problem is the sex part, I don't have experience here and it is hard for me to proceed forward. I want my first time to be with a decent girl, not just anyone, which isn't a problem for me. I am getting farther and farther with girls and im just about as far as you can go. So basically, I am seeing this one girl. She invited me over to spend the night with her the other night. It was good, lots of making out, some play etc. Im a nice guy and don't feel like pushing girls. I completely choked up though. She started talking about a past relationship being soo bad and the guy forcing her to have sex and it sort of killed the mood and we ended up falling asleep. What would be a good way to initiate sex? Just start taking clothes off? Take her clothes off? Ask? etc? How do i ask without being insulting or sounding like im desperate? Im sure I could setup a similar date or something like that. What would be a good way to go about doing it? The girl seems interested for sure. Im thinking a decent way would be doin some exercise w/ her, inviting her over for a shower after and going for it after that. Any other things to try?