Injuries from hardcore anal sex

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BungholeBlower Buba: Greetings. I will refrain from boring you all with a prolonged introduction containing quite useless information such as that I like taking long walks in the forest and enjoying a good romantic comedy in the tv sofa with my friends, and get straight to the point. My name is Buba, I am a single 42 year old black male who likes to give. I prefer to spend my 'quality time' with young, caucasian males. My problem is that I'm packing 16 inches, and that most of the guys in my highly sexual circle of friends have quite tight bungholes. Quite often, they moan and groan a whole lot, and I have been the cause of several serious injuries. Such as this one time when me and the guys were playing "Prison Rape" (though we are all of course in on it) which is about one guy playing the part of not wanting to have sex. After a while, his message "FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, STOP!" didn't get through as he had hoped, since we were in the middle of a roleplay (I would *never* hurt anyone unwilling, and my relationship with said individual today is quite prosperous). It wasn't until the blood came and his muscles went sort of numb that we realized that something was actually wrong.

I have no idea what to do about this problem, since of all the spam I get in my inbox from all the gay porn mailinglists I have joined, very few of the emails bear the title "DECREASE YOUR PENIS SIZE!!!". 'Taking it gentle' is really my last resort - what are your experiences with injuring your sexual partners due to a too fat and throbbing manhood?

 

[soccerfanatic]

Post your real measurements instead of trying to make yourself sound like a horse/man hybrid and we might help lol

 

[13788]

BungholeBlower Buba: I was only guessing before, but due to your request I just measured it, and I did exaggerate a bit it seems. Here are the fresh results:

Length: 14.5"
Girth: 6"

Isn't this the Large Penis Support Group? =/

 

[sflatintop]

Having a safe word might have helped...
Practice tuning in to your partner's responses. There is a difference between a roleplay scene and a rough fuck.

 

[Pappy]

Sounds as though someone,you, got carried away with the roll play. You state that his message "FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, STOP!" didn't get through as he had hoped. There was a breakdown in communications.

There is no way to have you penis reduced short of a surgical proceedure and I would advise against that. What you need to do is be more aware of your size and take it easy. Maybe even get some foam rubber doughnuts to put on your penis to keep you from inserting so deeply. You should be able to find the necessary equipment on the net.

 

[Kimahri]

While not hung like that, I've had a little trouble with some guys physically smaller than me in stature. Sometimes I simply don't go for anal because I know it's going to be a problem. While I'm pretty controlled normally, a really hot situation can make it a little rough for the guy on the bottom and that's no fun for me if the guy is in pain. Some dudes will try to handle something they know they can't because they don't want to seem like wimps or some shit like that.

I guess being huge hung comes with ups and downs. I dated a dude that didn't really want to bottom, but was too thick for many guys to be able to handle, so he adjusted. There are the "size queens" in every case that want the biggest they can get. Then there are some dudes that are hung big that make you feel inadequate if you can't handle them. As a recently versatile top, the dude with the 10 x 6.5 telling me not to be a little bitch and I can take it was likely going to hurt me alot and had no respect for me at all. Not cool.

In the end, I can only suggest warming them up quite a bit. I've handled a big guy before, but we'd been friends forever it seemed and this was another step in our friendship, so I wasn't the least bit tense or nervous. That plays a factor too I think. Get your friends comfortable and definitely take your time with them.

I measured on the front of myself to check out how far up 14.5" is...that's definitely moving some internals around so I'm forced to agree with Pappy about taking precautions to not fully penetrate your partner.

Ok, I'm done.

 

[13788]

Thanatos: Shit they're already all over the place -_- HIDE!

 

[Pappy]

Originally posted by Kimahri@Jan 11 2005, 11:51 AM


I measured on the front of myself to check out how far up 14.5" is...that's definitely moving some internals around so I'm forced to agree with Pappy about taking precautions to not fully penetrate your partner.

Ok, I'm done.

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Kimahri, why do you feel "forced to agree with Pappy" ??

 

[Kimahri]

Originally posted by Pappy@Jan 11 2005, 09:41 PM
Kimahri, why do you feel "forced to agree with Pappy" ??

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Um...I guess I said it for effect. I wasn't really "forced".

 

[Pappy]

Ok, I was just wondering if you felt like I would come and whip you or something if you disagreed?? LOL

 

[Freddie53]

Originally posted by Pappy@Jan 11 2005, 09:40 PM
Ok, I was just wondering if you felt like I would come and whip you or something if you disagreed?? LOL

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This thread is about a subject I have heard about so much and that is pain and injury during anal sex. Yet I read on this site about the wonders of anal sex and some have mentioned after doing it for the first time how the orgams was better than anything they had ever experienced. And these comments were coming from guys who were bottoms and consider themselves straight, but enjoy anal sex with other guys.

Those of you/guys who understand both the pain and/or injuries and the wonderful joys of being a bottom in anal sex please speak up and explain. I really and intrigued by the idea of being a bottom, but I must admit I am a bit scared at the same time.

Thanks

 

[Kimahri]

Originally posted by Freddie53@Jan 11 2005, 11:18 PM

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This thread is about a subject I have heard about so much and that is pain and injury during anal sex. Yet I read on this site about the wonders of anal sex and some have mentioned after doing it for the first time how the orgams was better than anything they had ever experienced. And these comments were coming from guys who were bottoms and consider themselves straight, but enjoy anal sex with other guys.

Those of you/guys who understand both the pain and/or injuries and the wonderful joys of being a bottom in anal sex please speak up and explain. I really and intrigued by the idea of being a bottom, but I must admit I am a bit scared at the same time.

Thanks

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Well, since I've been verbal of late, I'll jump right in on this. When I've bottomed, yeah, the orgasms have been some of my best, I actually get some distance and shoot more. BUT, that's only if the dude spent the time working me up and such. There have been several times I've dated a dude and he'd be so worked up that he'd just go right in without prepping, making out or whatever. That tended not to sit well with me and caused me to limit my experience doing it.

As a top, unless the dude is urging me to go straight in, I take a good amount of time getting him worked up. Sometimes they pop before I get to top them, but it's all good.

The most important thing I learned about bottoming, you just can't do it with some random person if you are not a sworn and certified bottom (hey....money making idea there....Ultimate Bottom Certificates).

Sorry...WAY too much caffeine running thru me right now.

 

[Young_bottom]

Ok So hi everyone, first time new user. I was just reading away through the threads and found alot of information which is great. Then of course stumbled in here. As the username suggests I am of course a bottom. In fact a 100% bottom so going on the previous post from Kimahri i thought a person who is of course a 100% bottom should give their opinion.

I myself don't consider myself a size queen, I enjoy sex with all sizes and have done. However I am lucky enough never to have sustained any injuries from sex. (well beside popping a hip but thats what u get for being double jointed.. that however is another story ) Now as a bottom I find a enjoy sex much more then being a top. I have of course tried topping and whilist i enjoyed it, it was no where near as good as being a bottom. Now I am the type of person who can enjoy sex with a guy continuing on even after I have blown.

Now as i mentioned i enjoy sex with men of all sizes but that doesn't mean i don't keep my eye open for the nicely hung men. Unfortunately where i am from it isn't easy to find men with anything over 8". The largest I have taken was around a 9", as to thickness i wouldn't know for sure. Although I must admit I am trying to work my way up the ladder to larger sizes to find my own limit. Which is yet to be found.

But I think top's need to understand that not all bottoms can handle it like the true 100% bottoms can. So take ur time at first make sure the bottom ur with can handle it then build urself up... it also makes for way better sex!

 

[britlover]

Good to see another Aussie bottom here!

I'm prolly what one would call 95% bottom, though. I have topped before (and majorly in one relationship where, unfortunately, both of us were bona fide bottoms! Someone had to do the honours&#33, and whilst I enjoyed the feeling and sensation, it's not what I crave.

What I find odd is that I often have difficulties with the more medium to large penises. The really large penises don't really hurt me that much, which is odd. It's the medium sized ones that tend to leave me a bit sore, especially if the fucker has been banging away a bit. Maybe because there is 'less room' for the larger cock to move around, the less friction I get?

 

[Kimahri]

My posts bring all the bottoms to the bar...and my post is better than yours

Just kidding.

 

[duzyamuthano]

i'm at the lower end of qualification for LPSG--8" long, thickness unknown (as in not measured)--but i've had quite a few experiences with bottoms where i've had to be ve-e-e-e-ry careful with my fucking in case i caused them pain and/or injury. (hang on: can you have injury without pain? hmm - now's not the time to go off on a self-anaesthetising riff :blink

i do know i can't fuck full-length from the word go and assume all will be well. i think part of the art of topping is being alert to how my partner's feeling and reacting to what i'm pushing inside of him. gasps and moans can be great and very positive (and stimulating) feedback, but they can be pain-derived winces, so it's important to sort the one from the other, otherwise someone's going to have a great time at the expense of someone else.

position has a lot to do with it, too: i've never bottomed (i have attempted, but always flunked ), but guys tell me that a dog-dicking gives completely different penetration from a squat'n'straddle-fuck.

i can't imagine what 14" fully inserted does to a guys' insides, and i don't think i want to ...

 

[13788]

NelsonMuntz84: My experance was my gf telling me that the only way she would let me do anal with her, was if she got a dildo the same size as my cock and got to stick it up my arse... I'm sure your all not shocked to know I've not tried anal yet and wont be!! lol

 

[Kimahri]

Originally posted by Young_bottom@Jan 12 2005, 08:05 PM
Ok So hi everyone, first time new user. I was just reading away through the threads and found alot of information which is great. Then of course stumbled in here. As the username suggests I am of course a bottom. In fact a 100% bottom so going on the previous post from Kimahri i thought a person who is of course a 100% bottom should give their opinion.

I myself don't consider myself a size queen, I enjoy sex with all sizes and have done. However I am lucky enough never to have sustained any injuries from sex. (well beside popping a hip but thats what u get for being double jointed.. that however is another story ) Now as a bottom I find a enjoy sex much more then being a top. I have of course tried topping and whilist i enjoyed it, it was no where near as good as being a bottom. Now I am the type of person who can enjoy sex with a guy continuing on even after I have blown.

Now as i mentioned i enjoy sex with men of all sizes but that doesn't mean i don't keep my eye open for the nicely hung men. Unfortunately where i am from it isn't easy to find men with anything over 8". The largest I have taken was around a 9", as to thickness i wouldn't know for sure. Although I must admit I am trying to work my way up the ladder to larger sizes to find my own limit. Which is yet to be found.

But I think top's need to understand that not all bottoms can handle it like the true 100% bottoms can. So take ur time at first make sure the bottom ur with can handle it then build urself up... it also makes for way better sex!

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Aussie bottoms are tougher than most tops. Then again, Aussies are tougher than most things. I love Aussies. One of my teammates was an Aussie.

 

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skeelicious08:

Originally posted by NelsonMuntz84@Jan 13 2005, 03:39 PM
My experance was my gf telling me that the only way she would let me do anal with her, was if she got a dildo the same size as my cock and got to stick it up my arse... I'm sure your all not shocked to know I've not tried anal yet and wont be!! lol

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Yeah, I'm just curious as to what is up with that. Why is it that when the woman wants to return the anal favor, guys suddenly clam up? If you expect her to take your size, its only fair that you be made to feel what she is feeling. At least I would think so.

 

[wristthickxl]

I'm glad to see this category has gotten more serious because I think it's a very legitimate subject...I've written about this before but, for some reasons, a lot of my posts disappeared when I switched membership formats..

Because of the size of my penis, I try to be very gentle when having anal sex with someone...I generally let them take control and let them decide how much they want, etc....

In spite of this, I've had a few very bad experiences (fortunately all safe...moral of this story: ALWAYS wear a condom, as I have)...several guys have started to bleed, one profusely (fortunately he was HIV - )..

and I had a fuck buddy for a while who could really take me and we went at it like animals...we had great sex one evening, like other evenings before, and he went home, feeling great...

next day, he calls me from the hospital...he was underdoing surgery...on his anal passage...I can't remember anymore what the diagnosis was (this was in a foreign country) but he was so embarrassed...the doctor helped him out by suggesting that maybe it was caused by an unusually large bowel movement (it was clearly me, unfortunately)...that was the end of our fuck buddy relationship...