we all know that it takes some time and extra sensitivity when with a new partner. more than likely due to the odds, she hasn't encountered something that 'fills' her as much. with lots of patience and lube, things always get easier... streching, the psychological leap, and pleasure always overcome the initial scare. recently i've met and fallen in love with a new girl -- and she has fallen in love with me and my oversized penis. so much that the usual gentle controlled 'adapting' sex has been frantic, hard, fast, of every conceivable position. this is different since she is really petite, small, unexperienced, and her cunt is amazingly snug. she reacts with every thrust and gets off on the pleasurable pain. when most girls initially feel the streching, and their cervix been hit, they want less, not more! it's been a real treat for me to let loose! a couple times due to her tighness and the strange angle from just being half in, i've experienced a painful sensation but ingored it considering the fun and reaction from my girl. four days ago i noticed dramtic swelling on the whole front right area of my shaft. it's only a little painful, but i'm mostly worried about the cosmetic factor. it's the fifth day now and still swollen!!! is this permanent? did i break something? anybody else experience this and recover?