innocence or experience

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  1. zaza

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    Are you attracted to virgins, or do you prefer a partner to have experience?

    Has your preference developed because of past experience?
     
  2. DC_DEEP

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    Personally, I prefer experience.

    Of course, after one time, a virgin is no longer a virgin, so someone with a preference for virgins is going to have to get a new one for every sexual session. I prefer sex at least once a day, so that would add up to an awful lot of virgins to seek out. From my viewpoint, you would need to take (basically) the same approach each time you have sex with a virgin, simply due to their inexperience. Doesn't that get boring after a while?

    I've been with my partner for a little over 5 years. While there are some aspects of our sex life that have become routine (things he especially likes, things I especially like) we are always experimenting and trying new things, and don't always have to "start over" as would seem to be the case with a virgin.
     
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    I quite understand that a virgin is no longer a virgin once they have sex. I was more thinking of the concept of someone only having sex with you, and no experience of sex with anyone else. Is there anyone in this day and age that would like this situation, or possibly even insit upon it.
     
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    Having said that.... The idea of getting a virgin, and teaching them all the tricks... Watching their eyes open wide as they experience new pleasures. It is definetaly something that sounds worthwhile.

    I mean, patience is important in those cases too, and not alot of people are willing to wait so that they can Break a virgin in.

    However, the idea of being someone's FIRST everything.. does have a ring of romanticism to it.:biggrin1:
     
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    Well, if you're the sort of person who prefers to drive a car which is still in its break-in period, and really doesn't like punching the loud pedal and letting 'er rip, then maybe virgins are for you.

    Personally I find the thought of all that rampant virginity depressing.
     
  6. Gisella

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    For sure experience...

    I dont fancy at all take any male virginity...

    I need very much experienced man...I even dream about it...:rolleyes: :biggrin1:
     
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    Well, Dirigible.

    If you are comparing people to cars, I am betting you are a terrible lay.:rolleyes:

    Everyone starts out as a virgin. To discriminate against one, just because they haven't had/taken the opportunity for sex, is silly. Perhaps you are forgetting that Virgins have the capability to become immense sexual beings, given the right guidance.

    I suggest you pick a better analogy. I am the type of person who sees beauty in watching a person grow and become. With virgins, you know where they have come from, and again.. there is a chance to teach. Very rewarding.
     
  8. Mr. Snakey

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    A virgin? I had one once. It hurt me more than it hurt her. No!:tongue:
     
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    In my limited experience I've been with one virgin and two more experienced girls.

    The sex with the more experienced girl (the other it was bad because I was really drunk) was awesome.

    I worry though because I have caused pain to the virgin and also the more experienced girl, although I did keep asking her if I was hurting her and she said it was okay but it turns out it actually did hurt her.

    That is actually the main thing putting me off having lots of sex with lots of these lovelies whose lover I want to be; the pain from my girth.

    Another more recent although not as serious reason is the cost of condoms!

    I should just add that the virgin did turn out to be great, although initially and for a very long time there was pain for her, despite all the stretching we did. Not bad pain she said, but still pain which I don't like to inflict.

    Eventually, she could take me all the way really deep and would ride me like a pony. It was cool. Although if we are talking for a one-off or first-meeting type scenario, then I want someone who can handle me.
     
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    To me, the idea of someone only ever experiencing sex with one person is rather sad. I have nothing against anyone that would choose that, but for me it would be very confining. Even when i'm in a deep and loving relationship i sometimes wanna test the sexual waters with someone new and fresh. Not VIRGIN new, just different. I know i'm not wired for strict monogamy, and i guess in my partners i expect the same.
     
  11. Mr. Snakey

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    Its not the point of experience for me. Its the hole! Too small. It was like my cock was in a grinder. Painfull. Forget about it.:biggrin1:
     
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    Depends on my motives...

    A sexual partner, I want someone who's more experienced, for love I'm fine either way, but virgins are problematic due to my girth, so it needs to be love to go through all that preparation and the long term stretching and what-not.
     
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    Geez. I absolutely LOVE virgins. I mean, sex is great all around whether they are experienced or not, but like Jeff said... "Watching their eyes open wide as they experience new pleasures."... that's TOTALLY worth the lack of experience. ;)
     
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    Dont know..but having a penis..an organ that penetrates may give a very different feeling about some enjoying the virgin experience...plus like being in a position of 1st teacher of pleasures...:cool: :biggrin1:

    And as Uncut said it can be painful for males too.
     
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    That's a tough one, depends on whether I want to be patient or not. If the woman has a rock hard body and is built, it wouldn't matter how experienced or not she is or even how good or bad she is at anything, the inspiration is there in flesh alone. I think with anyone though, you're going to have to go thru a learning curve, regardless of experience level.
     
  16. Mr. Snakey

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    Yes Gisella! But if i fall in love with a woman,experience or virgin its ok. Love rules over everything!:smile:
     
  17. Mr. Snakey

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    You got a good point:biggrin1:
     
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    I prefer girls who are big cock virgins. That is they have experience but have never seen a cock as big as mine. I love the stares and looks of amazement when they first see it. Also love the snug fit.

    any thoughts?
     
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    Hey I think its a good analogy. Even a corvette was new once and while its nice to drive around town for the first 500mile you dont start to smile untill you get it on the hwy. And if your daring and skillfull you can even bring it to the race track and see what shes made of.

    what a fun analogy I could go on like this all day
     
  20. Gisella

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    You do have a good point too...

    I forgot about this type of 'virginity..:biggrin1:
     
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