Insecure about my big dick....

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Let's make the assumption for the moment that this is legitimate--benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. You are insecure about this because you are a guy, and ANY guy, no matter how big he is, is going to feel some assault on his manhood if he learns that his mate has had bigger. It is deeply rooted in the socio-biological patterns of our psyche. Now you know the source, and why, you can think with your big head instead and be rational; consider a few points: One, you are in the top 0.1% f men everywhere as far as length and girth, two, your gf gushes, literally about your ability to please her sexually, and three, she is with YOU not her ex. If all that mattered in life was the size of a guys cock, we'd all still be dragging our knuckles in some jungle somewhere grunting inchoerently, but likely be dragging massive dicks behind us. Remember what is important in life, and live it appropriately. Think differently. To quote Red Green's man's prayer, "I'm a man, but I can change, if I have to, I guess". Be happy with who you are--your girlfriend is---or be miserable and insecure and suspicious, and lose her. Your choice.
So now where are your pics!!Any I am out of here this guy has got a big problem.I wonder if we have any theropists on this site.
 
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Haters..jesus. i was being honest about all of it..holy fuck, i am insecure, and no im not putting pics up because i dont want everyone gawking at my dick, i am a little more private than that. But my question was simply, Any ideas as to why i might be insecure even when i have so many reasons not to be...? please stop being assholes as well.
Sorry pal,, we are not being assholes as well.
Nothing wrong with assholes, also, if you have been paying attention. A lot of people enjoy them just fine.
So the reason I put pics up here is EXACTLY so people can gawk at my cock, and make (negative or positive) or ignore it totally.
You got a big cock, put up or shut up. Poor GF, has she seen this monster?
Claiming XL measurements on here without backup will get you nowhere.
 

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Sounds like you have "The Adonis Complex" Alot of people are never happy with what they have.

The guy that makes $40,000 a year wishes he makes $60,000 a year. The guy that makes $100,000 a year wishes he makes $1,000,000 a year.

Some guys that have 15 inch biceps wish they have 20 inch biceps.

Bender, from what I've ready you can have a 12 inch dick, and you'll still think your small.
 

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Haters..jesus. i was being honest about all of it..holy fuck, i am insecure, and no im not putting pics up because i dont want everyone gawking at my dick, i am a little more private than that. But my question was simply, Any ideas as to why i might be insecure even when i have so many reasons not to be...? please stop being assholes as well.
yes you are insecure about a bunch of things, your dick is the least of your worries
 

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Haters..jesus. i was being honest about all of it..holy fuck, i am insecure, and no im not putting pics up because i dont want everyone gawking at my dick, i am a little more private than that. But my question was simply, Any ideas as to why i might be insecure even when i have so many reasons not to be...? please stop being assholes as well.

If you are so insecure about your size, why did you join a community that is all about sharing their dicks?
 

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Finally someone I can relate to. You see, honestly, I make $6 billion anually and my girlfriend said her ex made more. I mean I buy her homes in spain and france every week and give her 7 bentlys a day, but I can't help feeling like its not enough.

I'm glad the OP can relate to my problem.
 

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Finally someone I can relate to. You see, honestly, I make $6 billion anually and my girlfriend said her ex made more. I mean I buy her homes in spain and france every week and give her 7 bentlys a day, but I can't help feeling like its not enough.

I'm glad the OP can relate to my problem.

Yeah. I'm like "gawd really? 6 billion, is that all you can make?" and seriously the 11" cock is like..well not big enough. My last boyfriend was 15"...so like.. try doing some PE, loser!!!!
 

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I bet you're not over 7inch long and thicker then 5.5 legit inches. Hence only flaccid (semi???) pics.


You and OP are kinda in the same ballpark; insecure internet liars.

I have psychological erectile dysfunction. Yeah I could go to a doctor, to get some boner pills, but it's only a temporary solution.
 

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Original poster, if you're still even reading this thread, you've probably made the mistake of believing that this was an actual support community...which it is not. It's an "adult community" with a few decent, supportive people and people with genuine issues sprinkled throughout. Don't take their comments to heart, please.

It sounds like you have a common insecurity...many of us have insecurities involving our bodies, and sometimes, we fixate on them. I'm 4'9", and my ex was into a girl who was about 6'0" after we broke up...then, a girl who was 5'0"ish. It doesn't mean that he liked any of us for our height, or that any height was better than the other...it was the person he liked. Yes, penis size is a factor in the act of sex, and sex is a very different dynamic than pure physicality, but it definitely isn't everything. Having a sexual or physical relationship with somebody is a complex concept...it involves so much intangible and tangible non-gentalia related aspects that boiling sex down to penis size alone is incredibly misguided.

So what if she's had a coke can? If his personality matches the analogy, it might as well be a literal coke can. What you should try to do is take all of the energy you're expelling worrying about her comparing you two and redirect it into fostering a healthy relationship for the both of you. And if she really believes that you aren't as good as her ex (which, from what you're saying, isn't the case), and she's comparing you to him, you should have enough self-respect to walk away. You're good the way you are, 9 inches, 5 inches, or 2 inches...you are who you are, and should accept yourself as is.
Don't sabotage your relationship because you feel you aren't good enough. Try to see how you're projecting this opinion of yourself onto her, and let it go.
 

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to be fair, 9 and a half inches is pathetically small. it might as well be a clitorus, son. i don't know what to say to you. you will be in my prayers. this is a cruel universe, may god have mercy on you and your micropenis.
 

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i will say that for the longest i was ashamed of my penis size then i got an older girl to give me head and she said i was large for my age, that was about six years ago...im only 7.5 inches but i still sometimes feel like im inadiquate.....but on the other hand it does sound like your full of shit just by the way you worded wverything but if you are telling the truth.....Man up you lucky son of a bitch you have a huge cock take it out and let the world enjoy it!!!
 

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I recently became the SECOND tallest guy I know, and it was like a small version of this. I'm so used to being the tallest that it threw me for a loop being out of my mental image of myself. It was mentally abrasive (google "cognitive dissonance"). I wasn't bothered by it or disappointed in myself, but kinda disorirnted I guess.

Every time she cums just remember she can't stand (or handle) anything bigger than you. Every squirt and clench is a testament to her love of you and your big dick. Chill out, man up, and be glad she has chosen to have a relationship (sexual and otherwise) with YOU.

Also in the future please don't feed the trolls with compliment seeking behavior.
 

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you starting this shit again !. Take a fucking coke tin and shove it up where a monkey shoves his. ! Maybe it would be better if you became impotent them this shit would stop !
 

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It's funny how this forum is allegedly here to offer support to people with big penises, and yet all there was on the first page was insults to this guy. As for why he could be insecure, we aren't therapists. BUT ... a stab in the dark: maybe if he bacame aware that his penis is really big, maybe he came to feel like a "freak." Maybe it carries with it a lot of pressure. And maybe it suggests something that people on this forum have trouble accepting: that size isn't everything.
 

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It's funny how this forum is allegedly here to offer support to people with big penises, and yet all there was on the first page was insults to this guy. As for why he could be insecure, we aren't therapists. BUT ... a stab in the dark: maybe if he bacame aware that his penis is really big, maybe he came to feel like a "freak." Maybe it carries with it a lot of pressure. And maybe it suggests something that people on this forum have trouble accepting: that size isn't everything.
You didn t read the OP very well.
He is insecure about his dick of 9.50", because his girl had in the past an 11".
Literally he wrote : so whyyyy do i feel like im not big enough, i just have this horrible thought in the back of my head while were making love "am i thick enough for her...shes had a coke can."

For the rest he's bragging how good his sex skills are...
He is not seeking for support, he is advertising himself as a sex god with a dick in the 99.9990% percentile. ( ofcourse as a starting member with only 3 posts and no pics )