Insecurities Does Everyone Have Them

[scojan]

Just wondering if I was the only one with insecurities about size. I am married and am perfectly happy, getting older and not so much worried anymore but it was a big problem when I was younger. Everyone I have been with with the exception of one has told me that I was the biggest. And even in my town theres always the talk. But I just never saw it the way let me know if if I'm the only one.

 

[smith2267]

Ah, there are guys bigger than me, but most women haven't seen them, so no. No insecurities. I don't have to be the biggest in my zip code. Biggest on my block is ok. Still makes me feel like I have enough.

 

[scojan]

thanks for the reply just always wondered never saw myself the way everone else saw me

 

[nudeyorker]

There are always people who are smaller and larger than you... I've never been insecure about my size and I have lost several "Big Dick Contests" in my time...(do they still do those in the bars?)
You have what you have and all long as it works...be happy!

 

[8060]

I don't think you're the only one. Perhaps you could have your wife say some complimentary things to you about your dick. That may curb the insecurities that you have or once had.

 

[Dan the man]

There are always people who are smaller and larger than you... I've never been insecure about my size and I have lost several "Big Dick Contests" in my time...(do they still do those in the bars?)
You have what you have and all long as it works...be happy!

Winning a big dick competition can be something to be proud of, but losing is most certainly nothing to be ashamed of either. You could never say to yourself "I could have won, I could have done better!" simply because there is NOTHING that could have been done. Well, apart from losing any fat pad and becoming as skinny as possible to make it appear bigger. By comparison, winning a bodybuilding competition is done by hard work and losing is either not hard enough work or just not quite good enough this year. In other words, you can influence the way your body looks, thin, skinny, lean, fat, or muscular but you can't really do a damn thing about your dick. Unfortunately. :smile:

 

[nudeyorker]

Winning a big dick competition can be something to be proud of, but losing is most certainly nothing to be ashamed of either. You could never say to yourself "I could have won, I could have done better!" simply because there is NOTHING that could have been done. Well, apart from losing any fat pad and becoming as skinny as possible to make it appear bigger. By comparison, winning a bodybuilding competition is done by hard work and losing is either not hard enough work or just not quite good enough this year. In other words, you can influence the way your body looks, thin, skinny, lean, fat, or muscular but you can't really do a damn thing about your dick. Unfortunately. :smile:

Thank you I could not agree more...BTW...I won a few too!:wink:

 

[bigguy4u]

This question always plays in my mind before any action occurs. I've never had anyone say anything negative and never heard anything to reasure myself either...

 

[scojan]

Thanks for the input I have never had anything negative said about it and have frequently had compliments. My wife is always complimenting it and I do not feel that I have ever dissapointed. I guess its kinda like hearing yourself sing or talk most people always think thats not how I sound, is it? Maybe its just always been a mental thing I was just trying to make sure I wasnt the only one.

 

[8060]

You're not the only one, scojan. So, you can exhale. We all have days like that.

 

[scojan]

thanks would like to keep the post goin

 

[upone]

Well, I've had a number of women comment positively and none negatively. When someone laughs and points, then I'll feel insecure.

Now, about everything else in life, yes, I frequently feel insecure.

 

[scojan]

I guess I should clarify while I might be a bit on the pudgy side as my pics might show, I am 6'4" 240lbs and with a little bit of exercise about right.:smile:

 

[pornofaen]

ehm....wtf...you people do not have anything to be unsecure about...im unsecure about my size everyday, i thinking too small, too small etc etc...

 

[Stockings]

Just wondering if I was the only one with insecurities about size. I am married and am perfectly happy, getting older and not so much worried anymore but it was a big problem when I was younger. Everyone I have been with with the exception of one has told me that I was the biggest. And even in my town theres always the talk. But I just never saw it the way let me know if if I'm the only one.

If you were ugly, fat, balding, poorly dressed and uneducated, dumb and dull like MOST people are, you would probably feel insecured. The dick complex would help you to hide youself the other complexes. Some unsecured try to cure by complaining about their big penis as if it was a real concern. They think that if they say that they have a big penis, people will forget that they are ugly, fat, balding, poorly dressed...

 

[B_cigarbabe]

If most people are dumb and dull,fat,poorly dressed,uneducated and balding then that includes you also right?
Let me add those who use words improperly too.
Just curious.
cigarbabe:saevil:

 

[B_theOtherJJ]

ehm....wtf...you people do not have anything to be unsecure about...im unsecure about my size everyday, i thinking too small, too small etc etc...

Why stress? Its not like you can change it....

 

[voyeuristic]

Sure! This site has given me a bit of a complex about my small breasts, honestly. I've always liked them, myself, and I've come across a lot of guys who claimed to prefer them, but most of the guys on here seem fixated on huge knockers. I suppose I can't do anything about 'em, at any rate (or have no wish to, rather!), so I'll just have to be grateful for the fact that there are always exceptions to the rule and focus on finding the rare guys that do like their chests on the smaller size and giving them a treat.

 

[scojan]

Let me clarify as I may have not been clear. My problem is not that I am insecure about being too large in that department, rather quite the oppisite. I have always felt small and not up to par while my partners always assure me I was not and even almost too big for them. Now, one i am no where near large using this site as a scale, but I have always wondered because I have always been insecure about myself. This was an honest attempt to really get the feelings of others. No I am not fat I have put on a few pounds as life will often deal you, I am completely comfortable with my life as it is. I could not ask for more. I was simply reaching out to see if I was the only one who had had these problems in the past, simply because for those of us not so full of ourselves we do experience bad days with insecurities and wonder if only for one moment, hey, Am I good enough. I hope this clarifies and I hope you will respond with honest answers. I am greatful for your feedback and hope to hear from you.

 

[SEXXXX]

geez, looking at many "member's members" here, I should feel insecure