1. D_Anton_Pavlovich_Jerkhov

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    A very trivial question?

    When you are in a (possibly new) relationship, how often do you think that the other party doesn't love you so much as you love them?
     
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    I don't usually feel that at the beginning of a relationship because it's all so new and exciting. I think the insecurity comes later when that glow wears off. Also I haven't felt the insecurity myself, but have experienced it coming from some my female partners in the past.
     
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    all my partners have complained of this.
     
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    Yeah, a fair bit. I get insecure, I admit it. It's only because I'm crazy about him. Sometimes he may even say/do things that make me that way, even if he doesn't mean to. I deal with it though because I love him so much.

    He can get very insecure too, though....and that is a reason I know he loves me.... at least a fair bit. I don't think we could really measure, he seems to love me a lot, and that's good, and I know I love him a lot!
     
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    When I'm first in a relationship, that's all I think. That I'm so much more into them than they are me. But that's part of the fun: wondering.

    Then once you realize it's mutual, it's all gravy.
     
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    Usually it's been the other way around for me. Last girl I dated had bad abusive relationships in the past. When she got with me, she felt that she wasnt good enough for me and that I didn't really love her. It especially didn't help that I have attachment issues. That relationship didn't end very well anyways.
     
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    Never been in a serious relationship with anyone. Love is a mutual thing; if the other party didn't love me as much as I loved them, I would dump them. There are so many lovers out there. So many cute guys. If one guy's gone, two will come, and three are ready.
     
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