You're very close friends. He told you about loosing his virginity because you're close friends. My best friend is straight. He is the ideal guy for me, in my mind, except he's straight! I have told him many times shit like, "why do you have to be straight?!" We laugh it's a joke. I know this it doesn't make me less jealous when he talks about a girl but it also makes me want the HOTTEST girl I can find for him. I also told him he can't have any more gay friends, only me. All the girlfriends he wants just no more gay guys. But that's off topic. :smile: His happiness means the world to me and I will do anything I can to make it happen. I chase off ugly girls at the club and introduce him to the hottest one I can find. There is very little he can do to push me to the point you're at now. There is certain behavior that I excuse because we are not dating, we will never be dating, and I know that one day he will be getting married to the girl of his dreams and I will be there to stand next to him when it happens.
Maybe he asked your permission of what he knows. He knows you have feelings he can't reciprocate, and your friendship is important to him. He may not want to do anything that could jeopardize that. I don't presume to know the details of your relationship I'm kind of going off of what i read and what I have experienced. Good luck with what ever happens.