- Joined
- Feb 3, 2017
- Posts
- 695
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 1,177
- Points
- 113
- Location
- Reading (England)
- Sexuality
- 60% Gay, 40% Straight
- Gender
- Male
Is this from personal experience? Instagram is attention whore central in general and some think they'll develop clout or be 'influencers'. Maybe these guys are in open relationships if not it is asking for trouble.
Exhibitionism and attention.No not from experience. But several guys I follow are either married or in relationships and I just struggle to understand why you’d want to post pics in your underwear to ppl you don’t know when you’ve got a loving partner to show it to lol
Exhibitionism and attention.
Just because they are flaunting it, doesn't mean their home is less happy, or that they are bad people. Social media is the current strong trend, and posting booty shots gets a lot of clicks.
Haha, I don't think you're that bothered but I don't think that following the crowd validates anything either. Those apps are designed to tap in and feed off the insecurity, promote the herd mentality, FOMO and that your life isn't enough in comparison. A lot of it is kinda fake. It's the best version of how someone wants others to see them. It's literally all filtered.I see. Guess I’m not trendy then lol
Sharing photos of oneself isn't whoring, nor does it mean there's anything wrong with the relationship. One can show without touching or being touched. Some people are exhibitionists. But, I would also ask, why just instagram? Why not here? There are thousands of users on here with photos of themselves, who also have partners or spouses. I'm one of them, and my partner knows I have pics on here. He doesn't care because if internet strangers want to see my dick, there's no threat that I'm going to cheat on him or that there's something fundamentally wrong with our relationship.
Yeh you raise a good point...definitely a trust element involved. Do you enjoy attention from other ppl than your partner regarding your dick?
I do, yeah. I've always been an exhibitionist of sorts. It also sort of gives my partner a boost to see a stranger on the internet complimenting it. It's sort of like, he knows he can get it, but User "X" can't. If that makes sense. LOL To me, it's not really any different than showing off a new car, or a tattoo, or a new pair of shoes...anything a person might be proud of. I mean, obviously there's a certain fundamental difference, but it's in the same vein. To us, there's a fun eroticism to knowing that my bulge and dick are out there on the internet, in various places. Nobody on this website presents a sexual threat to our relationship, you know?