I cannot disagree strongly enough that anything with a religious label on it should be unassailable. I believe that is where spirituality turns to dogma, and where faith becomes irrational. In fact, I believe that's where all of the anti-theists most damning arguments begin to make sense.
Here's a wild and outrageous idea...
How about we let the parents decide? What a mind bender that one is....
The perhaps you need to stop practicing and participating in Western culture, which is strongly rooted in Judaism/Christianity. The mere fact that you cannot go outside of your home naked or steal is rooted in these religions.
I wonder if people who have such a nonchalant (if not outright defensive) attitude regarding routine male infant circumcision - "it's the parents' business", "it's religious tradition", etc., - also take the same view of female genital cutting? If you say, "it's not the same", you're absolutely right. The most common forms practiced on females involve excising labial tissue, which does not compare to the loss of glans protection and subsequent keratinization, loss of sexual function, and loss of sensitivity from thousands of highly specialized nerve endings irretrievably removed in male circumcision. Not to mention the radical aesthetic difference in male circumcision status immediately obvious in any casual nude setting, hardly if at all apparent in females. A clitorectomy might be a closer comparison purely in terms of lost sexual response, but that's a relatively rare practice among societies that practice female genital cutting. Bottom line, neither practice has any justifiable medical basis.
Even though female genital cutting is quite rare in the Western industrialized world and almost unheard of in the US, nevertheless we saw fit to pass a federal law in 1996 prohibiting the practice in any form for females under the age of eighteen. Many individual states have passed laws outlawing the practice entirely. Why do we as a society think the very idea of similarly restricting infant male circumcision is so outrageous? Why are we so horrified by the idea of female genital cutting, yet we blithely accept what is in many ways a more destructive practice for nonconsenting underage and infant males as a routine matter of little importance? The answer is that one is seen as strange, foreign, and barbaric; while the other is commonly accepted, even preferred, as a result of unexamined, blind, cultural conditioning.
It comes down to a simple lack of awareness and unquestioning adherence to tradition. Just because we're "used to it" is not a good reason to continue a harmful, irreversible, outdated practice, whether you live in America or Somalia. It's completely illogical, and it calls for objective consideration and reflection from us if we are to be enlightened as individuals and as a society. I would encourage anyone tempted to dismiss these observations out of hand to spend some time educating themselves on the physiology and function of the foreskin (hint, it's much more than a little flap of extraneous skin) and the psychological, sexual, and identity issues that result for many men who were routinely circumcised, information readily available on several anti-circumcision sites. Try to set aside personal bias and do that with an open mind insofar as you are capable.
Incidentally, the federal law against female genital cutting applies to "Female genital mutilation", a term which I have purposely and assiduously avoided in this post up until this point for the emotional responses it evokes. But male or female, culturally accepted or not, and despite our conditioning, it is what it is.
But many Jews are against circumcision.I'm pro jewish in this issue.
Virgin sacrifice was an important ritual to the [Incas? Aztecs? Sorry, can't remember]. They thought without it the sun would not keep rising. (And yes, I know it's not the same, except for the point I'm making, "an important religious ritual")That's crazy to try to outlaw something like this that is part of an important religious ritual.
They're going on all over - parenting sites, medical sites, religious sites, college sites - why should a penis site be exempt?I have never heard so many heated conversations about the issue until I joined this site.
But if you do it, he can't decide for himself.Either do it don't do it, let you child wait and decide for themselves.
Yes, backing the fuck off of the baby would be a good thing.When it comes to The Bris people need to back the fuck off.
You do that, it's a free world - just not so free for the baby who happens to be born male in the USA.I think I'll start looking for other peoples religious rituals that I can try to ban because I don't like them and have nothing to do with my life or my faith.
It does already. You're not allowed to beat him black-and-blue. You're not allowed to starve him. You're not allowed to cut any other healthy, non-renewable, functional part off his body. You're not even allowed to "give" your son a small tattoo on his side that won't show with clothes on, and a Fresno man is doing time right now for that.Should the state have a right to deprive parents of their rights on how to bring up their sons ?
Yes, there is, and only the second will guarantee him that right.There is a big difference between a recommendation that parents give their sons the right to choose later, and a law which prohibits parents from making that choice for their son.