Intelligence And One Night Stands

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When it comes to a one night stand, how important is your partner's intelligence?

Are you okay with someone dumb as a rock as long as they put out? Do you require intelligent, stimulating conversation to reach the point of wanting to sleep with someone? Does intelligence have sexual value?
 

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I think you're over thinking it.

Many one night stands occur on the spur of the moment, with two people who are horny, possibly drunk, but usually having the virtues of being a) willing and b) close by.

Of course intelligence is a good find but when you want to get laid in a hurry it's probably not that high on the list.

Conversely, a planned meet might take into account other, better compatibilities.
 
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agree if its just fuck n go not really a major requirement, but if you like that pre or post coital conversation, just a little bit of getting to the know the guy before you fuck his brains out, then an ability to talk in more than one word, one syllable responses does help:)
 

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If I was looking for a relationship with the guy, then intelligence would matter. But since I am only interested in a one night stand, who cares about his intelligence level. My first boyfriend wasn't the smartest guy. He even admitted he wasn't very smart. But he was hot as hell and he knew how to fuck. But one thing he was very intelligent about was plants. He grew 100's of orchids and many other tropical plants. He knew all their scientific names and what each plant needed for food, fertilizer, light, water, etc. He was a walking encyclopedia on plants. I find that most people are smart about something.
 

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Hell! If it’s just a one night stand, looks barely matter. Much leas their intelligence.

I fucked many female dumb like a rock normally the first one of the night. I just get on with it and it's Wam Bam, Thank You Mam and then you go back to the party and find someone you want to take to a bed for the night to fuck. If you don't like their looks put a sack or their head or something. I they don't have intelligence then just grunt. Get your nuts of ASAP and get out the door to look for something you really want to fuck for the night. One night stands are cool as there is no obligation either way.
 
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When it comes to a one night stand, how important is your partner's intelligence?

Are you okay with someone dumb as a rock as long as they put out? Do you require intelligent, stimulating conversation to reach the point of wanting to sleep with someone? Does intelligence have sexual value?

Well, I'm would need anyone to be smart and aware enough to legally consent. Beyond that, physics and engineering will not be mentioned, I certainly have valued intelligence in my relationships - smart would be a thing I would look for. One night? Nah, not so much.
 

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If I was looking for a relationship with the guy, then intelligence would matter. But since I am only interested in a one night stand, who cares about his intelligence level. My first boyfriend wasn't the smartest guy. He even admitted he wasn't very smart. But he was hot as hell and he knew how to fuck. But one thing he was very intelligent about was plants. He grew 100's of orchids and many other tropical plants. He knew all their scientific names and what each plant needed for food, fertilizer, light, water, etc. He was a walking encyclopedia on plants. I find that most people are smart about something.
I;;m great with plants too I have a avocado tree growing it's 6" were only 3 months in most people fail when it's a seed
 
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I;;m great with plants too I have a avocado tree growing it's 6" were only 3 months in most people fail when it's a seed
My ex could grow anything. He specialized in orchids because it was a bigger challenge.

Congrats on your avocado plant. I would have killed it by now.
 

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Maybe I'm a snob?

I'm not interested in fucking someone who isn't interesting. I had a potential hookup back in February with a guy (who also was not truthful in his advertising since he said he was muscular, worked out a lot, etc. and then was at least 40 # overweight), he was a successful guy in his career I guess but just....boring. Between his weight issue, lying issue and boring character, I just couldn't wait to get out of there. This was after chatting online for months!
 

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i've never had a ONS in my life however i have had many instances of meeting acquaintances of people i know and getting in bed with them that same day. even faster so in a swingers party.

i do require a little intelligence so that we can have a decent conversation before and after the booty happens since i'm not really the type to pump and dump women that i deem worthy enough to bed with.