Intentionally gagging someone because you can?

[surferboy]

Well, that is the porn trend, to make her gag so you get that spit/vomit everywhere. Yuck city.

it's a fucked up porn trend. then again, porn is getting more and more fucked up. now people are into choking. my ex wanted me to choke her, and i freaked out

also, if you make whoever is sucking your cock choke without warning them, or discussing this before hand, you're a fucked up individual, and if you end up with your dick chopped off, i wouldn't feel sorry for you

 

[B_New End]

my ex wanted me to choke her, and i freaked out

wrong move, dude.

 

[JetID]

it's a fucked up porn trend. then again, porn is getting more and more fucked up. now people are into choking. my ex wanted me to choke her, and i freaked out

You had two options and you chose [freak out]?

Play along. Choke her a little and whisper "Don't make me turn this rape into a murder."

For her, probably, choking is a dominance, submission thing. She wants to be forced to do what she secretly wants to do anyway. Or she gets off and is a "gasper". Choke her almost to unconsciousness and she has an orgasm. I don't get that, but hey! There's lots of stuff that does not turn me on. You never know until you try it.

I dated a girl with an accent. It was so sexy. I loved the way she said "No." I told her I liked how she rolled the letters around, so it sounded like "Nayerr". It's not good to get more turned on, when a woman says no. But it's a good thing to know about yourself, so you are ready when it happens.

And, thank goodness, it was just her.

 

[Denverbearmark]

Well, I for one love to gag and choke on a cock! Love a dominate enough man who makes me choke and gag on his cock! Yeah, I am kinky, but what the heck? It is one of many kinky things I love!

Also the whole choking thing can be more then just domination. There is a physical response to the lack of oxygen that makes orgasm more intense. Hence the breath play in the BDSM world and erotic asphyxiation.

 

[surferboy]

wrong move, dude.

You had two options and you chose [freak out]?

Play along. Choke her a little and whisper "Don't make me turn this rape into a murder."

For her, probably, choking is a dominance, submission thing. She wants to be forced to do what she secretly wants to do anyway. Or she gets off and is a "gasper". Choke her almost to unconsciousness and she has an orgasm. I don't get that, but hey! There's lots of stuff that does not turn me on. You never know until you try it.

I dated a girl with an accent. It was so sexy. I loved the way she said "No." I told her I liked how she rolled the letters around, so it sounded like "Nayerr". It's not good to get more turned on, when a woman says no. But it's a good thing to know about yourself, so you are ready when it happens.

And, thank goodness, it was just her.

i'm sorry i don't see the sexual attraction in a choking fetish. get over yourselves

 

[kathezr]

it took my husband over 20 years to get aggressive enough with me to find out that I had a life long fantasy about being forced to deep throat a man no matter how sincerely I protested .....

 

[pepsiperfect]

Written in text, it doesn't seem tempting. But many sex acts don't. It's about what the heat of the moment calls for - mutual bliss if you will. If it feels right to overpower her and make her gag, so be it. If it doesn't feel right, then it should not happen.

Sex acts shouldn't be a mission you set forth to accomplish, they should just be what naturally happens out of the mixture of two persons energy. If you can't see where the pleasure of gagging comes from (either as a male or a female), you just haven't been to the point where it's been sexually appropriate to do. Somewhere in the millions of possible emotions, positions, and feelings, I promise you that gagging has been and will continue to be fetishized. Possibly, that moment will never come for you, but it's not to say that it hasn't come for other men and women.

 

[B_New End]

i'm sorry i don't see the sexual attraction in a choking fetish.

Yeah, but your girl did. Hence, wrong move.

It's about what the heat of the moment calls for

I agree, I love that sex ends up being some strange, exciting play put on by two people, where the story and the conclusion are pretty much done on the fly.

 

[JetID]

Yeah, but your girl did. Hence, wrong move.



I agree, I love that sex ends up being some strange, exciting play put on by two people, where the story and the conclusion are pretty much done on the fly.

Impromptu, unscripted lovemaking... The other guy probably wants missionary only, until he's 21. I sincerely hope, someday, he opens up and pushes his boundaries.

His GF probably does too Not everyone wants to try new things that might be gross or weird. No one wants to be put off their game, by going so far that it ruins it, but you won't discover those amazing things that are REALLY hot, unless you let go and try.

Just put it in a little See if you like it.

 

[JetID]

Plus who wants their mom to walk in on them having sex with a girl who has been choked into semi-unconsciousness? LOL! You'd have some fast explaining to do.

Maybe get it in writing first.

"I want him to choke me while he pounds my hot body... hard."

SINCERELY!
Gloria
P.S. I want him to do it with feeling, even if he doesn't like it... like we all do, sometimes.

 

[chefgreg]

I love when my girl gags on my junk and she loves to do it. I love how when she does it gets extra juicy. She is the first girl I have ever had who has ever expressed a likeness for gagging. It does not make me feel big or anything like that because I'm not it just feels good.

 

[Daisy]

Im so sick of the gagging trend in porn. It's so freakin nasty when anyone gags and god forbid they actually vomit. I would stop watching porn altogether.
I've sucked a lot of cock in my life and never gagged. If a guy purposely gagged me with it, he might find a pair of teeth marks on his dick.

 

[surferboy]

Yeah, but your girl did. Hence, wrong move.

so, i'm supposed to just do what anyone asks of me? hell no. if that makes what i did the "wrong move," then i'll keep making the same "wrong" decision every time

I love when my girl gags on my junk and she loves to do it. I love how when she does it gets extra juicy. She is the first girl I have ever had who has ever expressed a likeness for gagging. It does not make me feel big or anything like that because I'm not it just feels good.

so, obviously she expects it, and it's something you've already experimented on, and that's awesome for you. imo, it's not cool when you just start to go at it, with no warning. so not cool

Im so sick of the gagging trend in porn. It's so freakin nasty when anyone gags and god forbid they actually vomit. I would stop watching porn altogether.
I've sucked a lot of cock in my life and never gagged. If a guy purposely gagged me with it, he might find a pair of teeth marks on his dick.

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[B_New End]

so, i'm supposed to just do what anyone asks of me? hell no. if that makes what i did the "wrong move," then i'll keep making the same "wrong" decision every time

You shouldn't make your girl feel like a freak when she opens up to you and tells you her desires. How would you like it if you revealed a fantasy to your girl, and she flipped out on you?

That's kind of what "trust" means in a sexual relationship. You trust the person won't make you feel like shit for having fantasies.

 

[HiddenLacey]

Im so sick of the gagging trend in porn. It's so freakin nasty when anyone gags and god forbid they actually vomit. I would stop watching porn altogether.
I've sucked a lot of cock in my life and never gagged. If a guy purposely gagged me with it, he might find a pair of teeth marks on his dick.

I've had this happen to the point that I literally had regurge and had to swallow it back to keep from throwing up in his lap.

 

[JetID]

I've had this happen to the point that I literally had regurge and had to swallow it back to keep from throwing up in his lap.

Seems a bit of a buzz kill. Like a lot of things, it's all fun right up until someone barfs. Maybe (unless you were okay with that) talk to him first and hold his balls in your hand and if he pushes too hard and doesn't back off, just give them a little squeeze.

He'll back off. Bad posture is the second symptom of squashed balls.

 

[xmarksbreakdownx]

I was with a girl once and she told me it was ok if I gagged her. I had never really thought about doing, but I thought "what the hell" and I did, and it turned me on much more than I thought, and I did it almost every time I got with her. Recently I was with my best friend and he was sucking on mine, and I got real into it and choked him. He pulled off and asked me not to do it again and seemed unphased by it, but it really bad me feel bad that I got that into and did that to my best friend. I havnt choked anyone since (Of course... I havnt been with a girl since)

 

[surferboy]

You shouldn't make your girl feel like a freak when she opens up to you and tells you her desires. How would you like it if you revealed a fantasy to your girl, and she flipped out on you?

That's kind of what "trust" means in a sexual relationship. You trust the person won't make you feel like shit for having fantasies.

then i guess she wasn't my fantasy girl to begin with. you act as if me and my ex were engaged or something. we had been "official" for like, a month at the time. it was no big loss at all

 

[chefgreg]

so, obviously she expects it, and it's something you've already experimented on, and that's awesome for you. imo, it's not cool when you just start to go at it, with no warning. so not cool


When I first started talking to my current GF via google talk (she lived in Texas at the time) she would always tell me that she wanted to choke on my dick and that was a huge turn on. She is very eager and thoroughly loves gagging on dick, well at least mine. She is the first woman I have ever been with who likes it. I honestly think she just does it to please me because it has been my experience that most women freak out when they start gagging.

 

[Magnum10x2]

I'm not so sure its strictly a desire to gag someone more than its a desire to simply get deeper and feel more.