anyone into it?
i am in the middle of interacial and intercultural one, so far so good, but maybe this is because ppl don't take us seriously for now... i feel somewhat uncertain, afraid that everyday life would be difficult...
You know sometimes you might need to adjust your understanding of your partner if you are in interracial relationship.
anyone into it?
Into it? hahaha That's a funny way of putting it. Yeah, I guess you could say I'm in to it. :tongue: I'm not sure I understand your question.i am in the middle of interacial and intercultural one, so far so good, but maybe this is because ppl don't take us seriously for now... i feel somewhat uncertain, afraid that everyday life would be difficult...
[/b]. WTF?!?]I don't tolerate interracial relationships
I find that difficult to believe.Just as I don't tolerate same race relationships. I would not even notice unless you pointed it out to me.
I'm from NJ and have frequently dated white guys. It was never a big deal to us, we often got looks and negative comments from blacks and whites. As for moving, thats silly and naive. Prejudice is everywhere.Where I'm from (new jersey) everybody themselves are probably mixed in some way. If you're afraid of people judging you, move to another town. I'm suprised that something like this is still even remotely an issue, but I guess the world has not evolved enough yet.
I agree, their upbringing and whats normal for them, may be completely different from whats normal in your family.You know sometimes you might need to adjust your understanding of your partner if you are in interracial relationship.
One must have a stronger back bone and the will and strength to indure a still not so friendly world. If the bond is strong enough and the devotion and love are there love trumps over everything.
Okay we can share, :wink: you get the gay white guys and I get the straight white guys.Honestly, I don't really think about relationships being "interracial" or "intercultural" I'm like what Kassokiller said...I just see people who like each other together. It doesn't matter to me the reason or nature of their relationship.
I like to see same races together just as much as people who aren't the same. Personally, I'd be more into an "interracial" relationship just because I like white guys.
anyone into it?
i am in the middle of interacial and intercultural one, so far so good, but maybe this is because ppl don't take us seriously for now... i feel somewhat uncertain, afraid that everyday life would be difficult...
makes no difference to me. I feel that if you rule out others of another race that you may lose out on friendship or even more with someone you might have overlooked. It's a personal choice and people should respect that even if they don't agree.
I'm not sure I understand what you mean.
I'm in a same-sex bi-national interracial relationship. From a physical and cultural perspective we are very different. With that said, those are the least significant aspects of our relationship.
Concentrate on what you love about your partner. Work together to build a loving and lasting relationship. Your skin color and ethnic/cultural background should have no bearing on things. And please don't worry about what other people think. This is YOUR life.... not theirs.
I'm not sure I understand what you mean.
I'm in a same-sex bi-national interracial relationship. From a physical and cultural perspective we are very different. With that said, those are the least significant aspects of our relationship.
Concentrate on what you love about your partner. Work together to build a loving and lasting relationship. Your skin color and ethnic/cultural background should have no bearing on things. And please don't worry about what other people think. This is YOUR life.... not theirs.
Into it? hahaha That's a funny way of putting it. Yeah, I guess you could say I'm in to it. :tongue: I'm not sure I understand your question.
Are you uncertain about the future of your relationship because you can't see yourself with the person long term? Or are you uncertain because you think you are too different culturally, ethnically, etc. When the deal goes down all that matters is how you two feel about each other. Would you rather be alone and make your family and friends happy. Or would you rather be with her and be happy just living life together and learning about each other as you go along.
I'm currently in an interracial, inter-generational relationship. Not only is my current a caucasian, but he's also older than me by more than 2 decades. It just happens to be that way and we fully accept it. My true friends and family also accepts this so I could care less if someone has a problem with me being in a mixed relationship.
Sometimes you don't choose who you fall in love with. It just happens. The smart will learn to eventually go with their hearts instead of the voices and actions of the miserable who don't have any love at all. The rest will crumble under the bigoted, social pressure who worry more about what they want to see and may never experience what a true loving relationship consists of.
One must have a stronger back bone and the will and strength to indure a still not so friendly world. If the bond is strong enough and the devotion and love are there love trumps over everything.