Intercourse compulsory, or is mutual oral enough?

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  1. Dan the man

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    Are there any women here that actually don't require big cock penetration and prefer mutual oral pleasure? I mean, have any of you been with a partner where it's only ever been oral and never intercourse? Perhaps even a one night stand? Or is it mandatory that a big cock = 'MUST fill up my pussy, a tongue can only do so much!'
     
  2. dolfette

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    oral is overrated.
     
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    Oh yeah and why's that?
     
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    i love a man who knows how to use his cock well but when i recive good oral , oh my it justs takes me over the top and out of this world, so i for one do not think it is over rated it is like i have always herd and read on many web sites. a man who knows how to use his tonge is a man you want to keep around.

    of corse as always this is only my opinon,
     
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    oral and sex are over rated.. it just depends who you're rating with.
     
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    Oral is only overrated by people who get bad oral. That's my insensitive opinion about it anyway. :) I do not think there is anything in the world better than really good oral.
     
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    I agree, and it's not b/c I've only received "bad" oral. I'd just rather have a penis than a mouth down there any day.

    Of course, if the guy doesn't ever want to give oral, I'll stop having sex with him. It seems too selfish. Esp. since I love going down.
     
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    I dunno I've talked to my best friend about this and she loves it and it seems a lot of women do, I'm like you tho it's not that great to me and I like sex way better. So I guess I'd answer the question yes :smile:
     
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    Intercourse compulsory, or is mutual oral enough?
     
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    Personally, my partner and I have frequent, mindblowing sex; we also give & receive pretty mindblowing oral. Not too modest.
    However, neither is a substitue or replacement for the other. Everything has it's place. :smile:
     
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    I have done mutual oral without penetration and never felt like I missed "real" sex. It all depends on whether I feel like fucking or if I want to fuck that person, haha.

    One guy I dated was great at oral but sucked at intercourse, accordingly, he licked and fingered on more than one occasion but only fucked that once…. I was satisfied.
     
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    Booo! :wink:
    Some of my best oral experiences have been with guys who prefer licking. Although, I agree, oral is the best as a warm up to hot sex.
    Really?
    I usually just press hard from the outside, sort of under the balls. How about... no, I expect a post about prostate massage techniques soon!
     
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    Yeah, there had been plenty of times ive turned down sex just to play with his cock. Sometimes seeing him enjoy himself is far better then any sex could be
     
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    personal taste.
    i also dislike coffee, onions and booze.
    even great oral just isn't my thing.
    you aren't that smart, are you?
     
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    when you say oral, do you mean she's giving me oral?:wink:
     
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    The tongue creates a different sensation than the cock. I will never say I like one more than another. Both can drive me to the brink of ecstasy and back as well as feel oh-so intimate.

    But that's just me.
     
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    You must try and stop acting like you know every part of my life. fyi the guys who have gone down on me have been bi and straight.
     
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    Oral is more a giving than a receiving pastime.

    The eroticism of giving oral is rarely matched in the pleasure it affords to the provider than to the beneficiary.

    Which makes oral all the more wonderful.

    Suzie likes her pussy banged, better.

    LOL.
     
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    I disagree. I get turned on going down on my guy, without even touching myself. Having said that, the only thing that should be compulsory in terms of sexual activity is each partner being concerned that the other receive pleasure. If that connection is in place, the rest will work itself out.
     
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