I know that this forums is about asking straight men questions and my question is targeted mainly at straight men as well. But online it is a very popular consensus that a huge percentage of straight men is interested in other men's dicks without being attracted to the men. I've also heard a straight-identifying guy say that "dicks are just universally hot and therefore even people who aren't attracted to men can feel interested in them".
And so my question is, what do you think of this? Is that true?
Well, in my experience there are hardly any ‘universal’ truths and I believe that applies here. We all harbor curiosities about other peoples bodies in comparison to our own. This is true for men and women. So yes, I think given the right circumstances we will indulge those curiosities.
This could be taking a quick glance over at a urinal, scanning a locker room full of men in various stages of undress or simply looking at a man who has on pants that gives him a noticeable bulge. There’s no harm in in it and it doesn’t have to be sexual, either. Simply indulging curiosity.
Now, there may be men that ENJOY looking at other mens penises and it may give them some form of arousal in doing so. As such, he may seek out situations where he can indulge his fantasies and predilections but may or may not ever act on them.
I fall into that latter category. Straight, married, father whose never actually been with a man. I do enjoy looking at them and I sometimes imagine what it would be like to have another man feel/stroke/rub up against my penis and I do the same to him, but I’ve never acted on it. And while it is a fantasy I would like to pursue one day, maybe, I can’t say that it’s something I have actively pursued nor do I feel like I’m missing something if I never get the chance.