IMHO, it took "nerve" to approach you the way that guy did. I'm not shocked necessarily upon hearing about it; just taken somewhat aback. Many men would be.
And, I won't venture a guess as to "why" he did it!
Perhaps, a bet among the other guys as to whether he would say something to you or not?
Maybe an outright "come-on" to you?
Who knows....
Whatever----
Kermit, I hope you're enjoying your stay here!
You're making some really nice contributions with all your comments.
Again, as I've already noted in my previous remarks aimed just at you in other threads (trying to keep in mind your early remarks about despising your large size and its consequences)----
You're in "good company" here, friend.
Many large guys in this forum relate to your experiences.
Remember, what "you possess" is, in many ways deemed by many in the world as a real "asset"
However, there ARE ways to successfully enjoy life being a "big fella" and all the while-- feel good about yourself, too. It's doesn't have to become a matter of "flaunting it, forcing your size factor to be THE predominate issue in relationships", and so on.
Instead, it's a matter of being yourself, liking (and accepting!) yourself...and, --your very good fortune!
Yes. YOU'RE GOING TO SHOW! (given your dimensions.)
--despite your best efforts to totally conceal it.
That's a fact---period. It IS a good thing in many ways.
And, to some degree, you can always exercise good judgment in your clothing choices and the day-to-day environments your life will take you. Those sweat pants would have been inappropriate (for certain!) in a formal dinner party or high-brow social event, right?
HOWEVER, SWEAT PANTS WERE MOST APPROPRIATE AS YOU WERE SITTING AT A PICNIC TABLE, HAVING A SMOKE.
Accept the admiration of other on-lookers (often other
ENVIOUS men!). You may as well get used to it. You can't help being well-endowed and others can't help standing totally agast when seeing first-hand such sizes truly exist. It's not your fault (nor the fault of others unless their interests become infatuation or would prompt undue [unwanted!] aggressive behavior towards you!.) THAT'S when you would draw the line.
Kermit, don't let your "penis-consciousness" continue to overtake or consume you. You're no longer an adolescent---a time when many men must begin dealing with being bigger than most (as they physically mature).
The camaraderie around here has got to rub off on you sooner or later. Everyone of us guys "above average" eventually find there is life "having a big one". We find the way(s) to adjust, compensate, and deal with our size. And, so do our mates and partners in life.
In fact, I think you are allowed (with others among us) to even chuckle abit about the (absurdity?) over penis size being such an obsession in today's society...(of ALL things to spend such time, thought, and agony over compared to other "topics" in the world! What about world poverty, threat of war, incurable illnesses, etc.?)
Here in this forum, surely you're learing that your penis doesn't have to control your life afterall, friend!
Other members here are, day by day, are telling you just that!
Again, I'm so very glad you're with us!
