Interracial Cuckoldry

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_cosmognosis, Jul 28, 2011.

  1. B_cosmognosis

    B_cosmognosis New Member

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    This is a fascinating topic for me, so I wanted to know if anyone had any thoughts, opinions or even experiences that they would like to share about this lifestyle. My most recent experience had to do with a couple that I was talking to on CL. The wife was a total BBC slut and the husband had given his blessing on her pursuing her desires as long as he could be there and make sure certain things did or did not happen. Long story short, she reached out to me behind his back and he found out almost immediately. I wanted no part of the drama, but I know for a fact this wasn't the first time she'd gone behind his back. During the exchange that followed between him and me, he never once failed to address me, a total stranger that his wife wanted to fuck, as 'sir'.

    The more extreme end of the lifestyle is what fascinates me, though. I love reading the stories and looking at pictures of IR cuckold situations (especially IR cuckold pics with captions...they are my current favorite). I guess I want to know how common this fantasy is among both men and women. Do many people in otherwise 'normal' hetero marriages and relationships engage in this lifestyle?

    I've had my share of threesomes in my life and the males in the situation always without exception gave me dominance over the entire situation at a certain point. I won't tell you the number of times that the male displayed his true bisexual nature once the clothes came of and the fucking began. I never responded to it, but it was there if I had wanted it.

    What are some of the deeper drives that prompt men to submit to their wives' desires like this? Especially some of the more extreme examples where the men are wearing chastity cages and such? Or is that just a porn fantasy?

    Thanks in advance for sharing your intelligent and thoughtful contributions to this thread!
     
  2. Big Del

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    Been there, done that when I was younger. Would not do it again - too many complications and potentially awful outcomes
     
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    This is a complicated topic. To answer the main questions, as far as I can, let me break it down like I see it because I don't have any statistics. In recent years, yes, there has been literally an explosion of the number of hookups with black guys, for sex if not for dating, especially among younger white girls. It's everywhere on college campuses now. Second, yes, it seems white guys are responding to this by fantasizing a hell of a lot more about black guys fucking white girls. It's not just in how popular interracial porn has become online and whatever, but I see it in day to day life, literally all the white guys I know have expressed interest in watching at least some interracial porn (black guys fucking white girls) and others seem to go straight for it. It's also everywhere in media, TV, sports, and the craze for hip hop.

    As to how common an actual "cuckold" relationship is for an otherwise normal couple, I think this is still rare. But it takes place in other ways. A lot of the white girls who hook up with black guys now have white boyfriends or something like that, so it takes place even if it's not "formal." Second a lot of white guys would find it hot but don't know how to bring it up with the gf or whatever, or she'd feel too shy. I jack off thinking about it all the time, or during sex with my gf, but haven't talked about it with her yet.

    As to the original post's idea that giving him complete dominance over the situation is bi, that's possible, but complicated. I certainly consider myself straight but yeah there is a thrill in letting a ripped, hung black guy with attitude take over the situation and fuck the shit out of my gf, that's what's hot about it. Not sure about the deeper drives but it's an interesting topic might have something to do with evolutionary psychology and theory.
     
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    Thanks for the contribution to the thread...would anyone else like to offer some more insight?
     
  5. docilej

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    Is it possible that the white bf/husband secretly wants to be with a black guy (ie...another male who is bigger/stronger/in-charge)?
    And, since he can't bring himself to do that, is using his gf/wife as a surrogate?
     
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    I think media over-sexualized black men and it really got into people's mind. Almost like if you want good sex.. go black. Soo many terms like "you go black" and "big black cock" is known to even girls who haven't even had sex with a black guy. The popular cartoon family guy often cracck jokes about how black guys are endowed.

    I for one am a pretty masculine guy but I do have an insecurity of my size 6x4.5.
    When my gf and i were just talking about size general she told me how her big her ex was (black guy) and he was huge. She went on saying how she seriously thinks black guys are bigger and have really good rhythm.

    Hearing this I playfully laughed and continued but I was just really turned on. She also said how she thought he was really masculine bc he was really big.. she left it at that and i didn't bother to probe. But he was tall but he was also "REALLY endowed" and she said it. From that I just kind of felt he was more of a man than me a little..but also kind of wanted to see him.. made me really curious.

    To a point if somehow us 3 were in the room getting naked.. I would submit to him.
     
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    From my perspective as a husband, I don't need my wife involved just so I can fuck a black guy. If that was what I wanted, I'd just go for it, whether she cuckolded me or not.
    Having said that, I can think of nothing better than to be cuckolded by my wife with a black cock, I fantasize about it all the time, and if he would do me too, I'd have no problem with that, but the most important part is watching him stretch her wide with a big black, bareback cock. And, honestly, I wouldn't care if she did it behind my back, as long as she gets pounded good by a big black cock.
     
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