This is a fascinating topic for me, so I wanted to know if anyone had any thoughts, opinions or even experiences that they would like to share about this lifestyle. My most recent experience had to do with a couple that I was talking to on CL. The wife was a total BBC slut and the husband had given his blessing on her pursuing her desires as long as he could be there and make sure certain things did or did not happen. Long story short, she reached out to me behind his back and he found out almost immediately. I wanted no part of the drama, but I know for a fact this wasn't the first time she'd gone behind his back. During the exchange that followed between him and me, he never once failed to address me, a total stranger that his wife wanted to fuck, as 'sir'. The more extreme end of the lifestyle is what fascinates me, though. I love reading the stories and looking at pictures of IR cuckold situations (especially IR cuckold pics with captions...they are my current favorite). I guess I want to know how common this fantasy is among both men and women. Do many people in otherwise 'normal' hetero marriages and relationships engage in this lifestyle? I've had my share of threesomes in my life and the males in the situation always without exception gave me dominance over the entire situation at a certain point. I won't tell you the number of times that the male displayed his true bisexual nature once the clothes came of and the fucking began. I never responded to it, but it was there if I had wanted it. What are some of the deeper drives that prompt men to submit to their wives' desires like this? Especially some of the more extreme examples where the men are wearing chastity cages and such? Or is that just a porn fantasy? Thanks in advance for sharing your intelligent and thoughtful contributions to this thread!