Interracial dating and/or sex

Tully77

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I have a card that says exactly what my Native American tribal bloodline and fraction is for benefits. It's weird to look at because without that card you'd never dream I am as much Cherokee as I really am. When I was a child I would go to the Indian hospital for treatment and sometimes get snubbed because the 1/2 and fullblood natives working there felt I didn't belong there. It's an attitude nearly all pure races are known to have when they have worked hard to keep their bloodline free of any other races, especially the Anglos who took their land. I feel torn but I feel more connected and bonded with my Native background thanks to my mom who has drilled it into me to never forget the roots from which I came.

When I go to the Casino and lose money, I just feel it is the white man in me paying the Indian man in me back for taking their land. ;) Atleast, that's how I see it. lol

Very well said Mademoiselle.
 

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As a black male, I have found interracial dating a curious and rewarding yet bizarre minefield for me. Although all of my long term relationships have been with black guys, I've dated 2 white guys and Latino guy in the past. I've come to the conclusion there is certain mindset of white guys that I can see myself with in the future. The Latino guy and I had a lot of chemistry, but our life tracks were going in different directions. We both were about to graduate from undergrad and heading into our own distinct directions in life thus pulling us a part. Sexually, I've only been with white guy and he was very wild but too damn controlling for my tastes.

However, I feel that the dynamics that black gay/bisexual guys like myself and some white guys plays a part in determining the ability of it work. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but some white guys let their peers effect how they act and what they do in their dating of non-white guys particularly black guys.

I've had some guys attempted to date me where they would treat me like gold when alone but act awkward around some of their friends (always white) gay/bisexual friends because they feared what they would say about us being together. I don't have time for BS like that and would rather not date a white guy that lets that be his litmus test of treatment of me in non-private settings.

Overall I would do it again in the future and don't see any issues in practice in general.
 
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