Interracial marriage stats and penis size

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  1. D_Harvey Schmeckel

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    Hey,

    During research for a book I stumbled upon some statistics that might imply penis size as a causal factor. Not something I would attach my name to as a scholarly hypothesis, but would like to throw out here. (These are all recent US stats, which I can back up with detail if anyone's interested.) White women marry black men far more than white men marry black women. Oriental women marry white men far more than oriental men marry white women. Both of those statistics suggest sexual selection according to penis size on the part of the woman. Of course, marriage and sex are not the same thing and it's possible that white men and black women fuck as much as vice versa, they just don't marry as much.

    Knowing nothing about Native American dick size, I don't know what to make of the fact that a huge proportion of NA women marry white men (close to half) while very few NA men marry white women. All this would seem to create surpluses of black women, Asian men, and Native American men in the marriage market.

    Comments?

    Oh, BTW as a gay person I can comment that black and Asian and Latino gays often prefer whites sexually to their own ethnic group, and find equal number of white guys who prefer nonwhite partners. Not sure there's anyone being left out here.
     
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    How exactly do marriage statistics imply partner selection based on penis size?
     
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    I agree, cultural differences account for a lot of it too. As for the guys study, yeah you might find that as a reason, but it's probably just one of the myriad of reasons why one would marry interracially. Just from observation over the years, I've seen latina's that are extremely loyal to the males in their culture, Same with orientals, if the male is looking for that attribute of cultural obedience, I can understand why he would propose a LT relationship. That's not to say that the women are totally submissive to their male counterparts. Earlier today, I stepped outside my apartment to see an interracial couple, caucasian male with black female. In Miami, it's not uncommon to see this and the black female, could very well be Haitian or any of a number of the possible Caribbean Island African decents.
     
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    You are going to be writing the most idiotic book if this post is any indicator. Usually there are a couple factors other than penis size that go into marriage. IF these were casual sex statistics (don't know of anybody that keeps those) then it would be closer to a worth while analysis but even then it would be a preposterous assumption because a. we don't wear our penis' on our sleaves and b. the generalization of penis size based on race is not nearly as effective as you might think.
     
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    Well, I think and observe that penis sizes are way down the list of wishes and wants of persons, 'nothing' compered with love, compatibility, financial stability, plain $, status, greencard and etc...:rolleyes:

    And with divorces hates so high it seems people keep 'choosing' wrong...:scratchchin:
     
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    I know from the studies that I've seen that Asian and Indian men are near the bottom of the list as to what women in this country find desirable, and black women are near the bottom of the list for men. Though white males and white females were at the top of both lists.

    I doubt that penis size has much if anything to do with this. But I suppose the stereotypes for black men being hung and asian men being tiny could contribute somewhat to their perceived desirability by women. Overall I imagine stereotypes about personality, attitude, and socioeconomic standing would all play a bigger part.
     
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    oh, how i've missed "linking" topics. the only thing cock size is linked to is cock size. that's it.
     
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    Even if the question posed by this topic is dumb or not entirely accurate, that blanket statement seems a little short-sighted and closed-minded.
     
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    Although I seriously doubt the OP that any of it has to do with penis size, real or assumed, I have noticed that the great majority of interracial couples I have seen do indeed involve white male with asian female or black male with white female. Yes, there are exceptions, but that's just my observation.

    Notice to one poster in particular: please notice the difference between "causal" and "casual". Especially in the context of the thread, the two terms mean almost opposite things. Causal means one thing tends to cause the attraction. Casual means that it is just a passing thing, or one-night stand. Casual sex is not really the thing that relationships are made of.
     
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    that's absolutely wrong. penis size is linked to very much psychological issues which even may affect marriage.
     
  11. D_Harvey Schmeckel

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    I know from personal experience that white guys who prefer or are strongly interested in black guys do tend to link it with penis size, and straight porn is obsessed with big black dicks and interracial sex. That is, porn tends to mirror the marriage stats: lots of white men with Asian women but not so much vice versa; ditto with white women and black men. To say that evidence suggests a possible causal factor is very far from excluding all the other obvious factors. But penis size plays such a big role in sexual selection by gay men that it hardly seems outrageous to suggest that it may affect straight men's marital prospects.
     
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    This evidence would best be presented as part of a qualitative research study that careful explained any supposed realtionships and the limitations of such research (which can be hard to generalize to larger populations and groups.
     
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    Lex, I don't think the odds are very good for penis size being considered as a factor in any kind of sociological research. If the mere casual suggestion that this factor might play a role in mate selection evokes scornful dismissal and personal insult on a Large Penis Support Group of all places, how likely is any academician going to be to even consider such a topic for research?

    BTW the book is about Southern family history involving interracial marriage.
     
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    Of course my own experience is nothing more than that, but I know more white male black female couples than vice versa. Black women would not be at the bottom of my list of sexually selected partners (not that I have a list and if I did, first equal would be full). Maybe white guys are intimidated and black women believe what their friends say. I also know asian guys who are married to white women - and no complaints.
     
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    A lot of the reasoning in some of these posts pre-supposes that, when searching for a long-term partner, most people (regardless of race or gender) put penis size at the top of the list of criteria. I can't possibly imagine that I'm the only person in the world whose list starts out with things like personality and intelligence.

    It matters not at all to me, if a man has a huge, beautiful penis. If he is a poor excuse for a human being, I have no attraction whatsoever. That's what dildoes are for. I really liked my partner before I fell in love with him, and I fell in love with him before I ever saw him naked.

    Just my opinion, but I would think even those people who prefer to date other than their own race, do so for reasons other than penis size.
     
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    Ah..now I understand...is from south perspective...

    Sorry for stereotype southerners but I still do...bcause many are still behaving racists and xenophobes. I dont think I misinterpret what I see and live as some of my friends too. But things are changing in some circles..younger generation are being 'adventurous' and trying new flavors and colors and tongues. Nice.
     
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    As a "Brown woman" (Ethiopian / Costa Rican).
    Oriental men (I think that's not PC) but it's the only term I can think of. Oriental men are the ONLY race that rarely approaches me for sex or a relationship. I almost wanna give any Oriental man a "Free Pass" with me. To well......Diversify my Portfolio.
     
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    Oh, come now; certainly you realize that you are. I know that on the top of my list is penis size... er, I mean breast size... or rather, um...

    Anyhow, if your hypothesis that the reasons for the statistics on inter racial marriage in the USA is based on physical characteristics then I am willing to argue those with you. The size of the mans penis could be one possible explanation, but you would also have to include what our society has pushed as the ideal “body type” White men may be attracted to Asian women because (many) of them have more slender builds and delicate features. White women may not find Asian men as attractive because (in general) most of them are shorter and slighter than their white and black counterparts. And it goes on from there. I am not going to bother with the rest as I am making myself sick. I am so bloody sick of the black/white/Asian thing that I am ready to scream. If you are going to write a book based on that research be prepared to be laughed at. It could even be a simple height thing- if the average women wants a tall man then usually Asians are shorter than white who are often shorter than blacks.. Now I am considering ONLY the physical reasons and not bothering with emotional or social reasons let alone the rest of the list of what makes a potential mate attractive. This is one site that you are not likely to find support for your theory.
     
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    Dolf, when I read your post, I was thinking, almost until the last couple of sentences, that you were ascribing the "penis/physical characteristics" criteria for mating to me... it was a little bit ambiguous; you quoted me, then went on to the other subject... in case there is any doubt whatsoever, let me clear it up (I think you agreed with me dolf, but I want to be certain...)

    In my short lifetime of almost 48 years, and living on both coasts and in the south, I have met many people of many racial/ethnic/national origins. Within that mix of people, I have known men and women of various races, national origins, backgrounds, and there may be some traits common to some groups, but they all come in assorted shapes, sizes, colors, height, weight, endowments, religions, temperaments... you name it. I've known tall asians and short ones, thin ones and fat ones... I've known people of african and asian and european and south american descent, and no one characteristic is unique to any one group.

    I won't mention which ethnic group, outside my own, I find especially irresistable, but it is not any one thing - not the hair color or skin color or endowment, but the combination of many things. As I said before, top of the list would have to be intelligence and pleasant personality, but all other things being equal, I would find guys from this particular ethnic group more attractive. I can't imagine anyone shallow and stupid enough to make a statement like "I only date black guys, because they are all hung and I like big cocks."
     
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    :biggrin1:

    Me too EH..just once we were intense looking at eachother..was a very handsome Japonese, I was travelling JAL but than as bording he went to firstclass...:rolleyes:
     
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