Interracial Relationships

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  1. UMBuster

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    Has anybody been in an interracial relationship or has had sex with somebody of a different race? How was it?

    I'm a gay black male who has been interested in white guys since I was in kindergarten. This blond boy sat in front of me. I wanted to touch him, hug him and kiss him but of course I did not do that. I am 51. This was back in 1962 where nothing was open about being gay. I did not even know that I was gay. I have been in nothing but interracial relationships. What attracts me to white men are their eyes, their nose, their straight hair and curly hair, their slender and flat butts, how they fit in blue jeans. I have seen some guys in beards that really look attractive. What really turns me on are they guys who grow hair on their chin. I also like the moustaches. Lately I have favored the whiter than white guys but I also like guys who have tans and are a little darker. I favor blonds but I also like black hair. A cute guy is a cute guy. We also have some men from India who I work with. There are about four me from India who is really attractive.

    My first and best relationship was when I was 19 I met a very cute guy who was a 10. We were very good friends for about five months before we found out that we were gay which made the friendship a bonus. We could talk about anything. We also had lots of fun, more fun than I've had with anybody. He was a great kisser which made me a great kisser. Unfortunately our relationship was far too short. He became sick mentally and was put into a state hospital. He broke away from three guards, broke through a lock door and jumped 8 floors to his death. This happened in 1976. I still think about him from time to time and relished the great times that we had. A year and a half later I attended and graduated from the University of Michigan where all of the great looking guys are at.

    I have been in other relationships but not nearly like the first one. I named my computer after this guy. You can be attractive to somebody but you still have to have things in common, love and respect. I have no doubt that we would still be together today if he was still living. Looks will go away with age but it's the person and his personality that counts to me. I can meet a guy who is a four or five but his personality can make him a seven or eight to me.
     
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    You may wish to check the orientation in your profile.

    My most recent lovers have been Near Eastern, Far Eastern, African and American (white/native american). I am a white Western European, so I think I can safely say that it isn't about race for me.
     
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    I'm 1/2 black and 1/2 arab, my boyfriend is 3rd generation Austrian/American. I've dated men of every race.

    I don't think it is bad to favour a certain skin colour in a potential partner. Just as long as that isn't the only reason you're attracted to him.
     
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    I've had oral sex with two girls of different ethnicities, but no long term relationships. Race isn't an issue for me. I think the only time it would be is in terms of being so totally different with regards to background/upbringing/mentality that it just couldn't work out. That's a possibility, but I suppose those differences could exist between two people of the same race too. I will say though, I chatted briefly with a black girl in the past, and I got the 'hell no, you're white?' reaction. I do understand that sort of thing is an exception rather than a rule, and it hasn't put me off other races, but it has made me doubt my own attractiveness to them. It's things like that which have made me just slightly hesitant to approach a woman who isn't white. So it's not for lack of wanting, it's just a kind of 'is this okay to do?' feeling.
     
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    I'm married to Cigarbabe, a sexy black woman.I'm white.
     
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    I encourage all white men to fuck asian women and asian men to fuck white women
    Kristen Kreuk, Nicol Sherzinger etc. etc...
     
  7. Principessa

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    IMO it is more than okay to do. :smile: :cool:
     
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    I'm white and have dated and/or had sex with guys of just about every race/ethnicity. It's all good. :smile: For me it's more about personality and general physical attractiveness (and I find men of every "race", for lack of a better term, attractive).
     
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    I'm white.

    I've been with white,black and latin.
     
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    Yet again another embarassing THREAD. When are we going to get over this stuff? Why does everyone talk about interacial dating , marriage etc like they just did something special? I think the greater differences are gender, socio economic and cultural. Color has so little to do with it other than how people perceive themselves in relation to it.

    I have dated men of African, Asian and European descent and all of them were men... and thus were from Mars and I from Venus. That was our major issue.
     
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    I'm white German/Irish decent and have had gf's of all different races. All were great. My present gf (of three years) is black (and utterly stunning - WOW - she revvs my engines).
     
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    I recently did the ir thing. I'm a black and was curious about white like u and I have enjoyed each exp thus far.
     
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    I have a huge argument with my friends' husband about this every other year or so. He maintains that to be happy a couple must be with in +/- 5 years of each other. I maintain that happy couples need to share the same or a similar moral/ethical/socioeconomic background. The few times I have tried dating beneath my class it has ended quickly and badly. Yes, that happend with both black and white men. :confused::rolleyes:
     
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    No there are black people who act stupid about it too. Yes I know what you mean about socio economic issues. You have nothing to talk about. THen you get accused of being stuck up.
     
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    That is exactly what happens! The next man who calls me an uppity oreo just because I always know which fork or spoon to use, or save for retirement is going to see me, 'act black.' :mad:
     
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    I have been in several interracial relationships. Some one night stands and some short term and some long term relationships. I find beauty in each and every race and nationality of people.
     
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    Sure. My wife is Latina. I'm not.

    The sex or the long term relationship?

    Sex was great.

    Long term relationship is like this: Before my first meeting with her family she half jokingly advised me: Remember, with Latin families, when you taste just one bean you end up eating the whole burrito.

    Truer words were never spoken. They happily accepted me and I've never looked back. :cool:
     
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    Thank you! It really shouldn't be such a big deal to date{want to}a person of another color. It's more important to find someone who you have things in common with. Forget about their race,date someone who has similar or different values,what matters is, do you get a long together? Can you find things in common?
    Color alone won't keep you with someone,as a love interest.Common ground will.
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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