Oh, I don't have an answer for this question. Not at all. I'm off the hook for an answerWhat's makes a woman a slut? :shrug:
Hell, I wish I could find someone like that. I have a hard time finding a woman who will tell me what she likes. :frown1:Why are some men intimidated by a woman with a strong sense of her sexuality? Someone who knows what she wants/likes and is not shy about stating it, why is this threatening?
Why are some men intimidated by a woman with a strong sense of her sexuality? Someone who knows what she wants/likes and is not shy about stating it, why is this threatening?
If you come onto a guy sexually and he "runs away" maybe you are just interpreting this as intimidated. I think most women assume every guy will sleep with any woman that is willing as soon as she is willing. This is because usually it's the woman that takes longer to decide that she likes a man enough to have sex. So women's experience is that as soon as they are ready the guy is also ready. The few times guys aren't ready and want to get to know her better, the woman interprets this as them being intimidated or wimpy. If a woman is assertive and wants sex sooner than most women, then she is more often going to be turned down because the man doesn't know if he likes her that soon.
So I believe what you call intimidated is just a misunderstanding.
Thanks for saying what I was thinking Jovial.
Just because we are male does not mean we are a walking hard on for you females to ride when you want too.
My point is, the feeling that you are going to be judged by her. Why is that even there? Now, I understand what surferboy said about religion. I think that is one of the biggest underlying issue. Women are not supposed to be sexual creatures. I think a lot of men look at a sexually confident woman and think "slut!" and how she is defective.
Are you talking from personal experience, or just theorizing?
Just because a woman acts like she is a. in heat or b. is the dominant and has what she wants does not mean that a man will find her attractive.
I have found that the 'I don't get men because they are intimidated by me' excuse is used by people who are not what would be considered conventionally attractive. Also, if a woman wants to assert herself... or be the dom, she has to be willing to break her sub and control that relationship.
You know what I think most of it is? Some men talk shit. They say what they can do, say what they want, say what they like and when it gets down to it, a woman who knows herself and what she likes/wants scares the fuck out of them.