In nyc, in almost every gym I ever went to, there were lots of guys checking each other out. You couldn't help but notice. Or be noticed. So, as some of you know from my earlier post about questioning exhibitionism, I was caught up in this for a while. It was almost TOO easy to share in this kind of cruising in the locker room. And often it was very sexual and hot. And with a big cock, I found I could cause some reactions and soon learned how to keep the attention growing. But part of this too was a game of being subtle, catching the glances and looking away, avoiding staring too long, letting my cock lengthen to a degree so that it was thick but nowhere near being hard... these were the games that were played out. So yes, to answer the original question, guys that are not overt about being seen naked are more intriguing. Guys that aren't shy but at the same time are overtly showing, touching or staring too hard at the subject matter are cool. I watched a hot guy recently blowing drying himself all over his body in front of a mirror while talking with friends, and he was blow drying everything including his muscular hairy ass and you couldn't help butt notice... I mean this guy had no sense of shame and his naturalness to this routine was just something to enjoy. A while back, I had more time for these games, now I tend to go in, change and get my work out done. So it kind of catches me off guard now if a guy is checking me out now since I am not really starting anything.