Hi everyone. After reading this forum for a few days, getting used to the flow of things, I decided to join and here I am! A little background as I am soon to be divorced after 14 years of marriage and in mid-March started dating a wonderful guy who happens to be extremely well endowed. He's very concerned about hurting me if he thrusts too deep or making me bleed and while there's been some minor discomfort at times it wasn't anything to ruin the moment. (felt like he was hitting a nerve ending as it was painful but almost in a pleasurable way) I enjoy performing oral sex on a man but have to strain to get my mouth around him so I'm hoping to find some helpful tips in this forum for that, among other things. He's wonderful in so many ways. Soon-to-be-ex-hubby never asked what was good for me or if I liked something and this guy does all the time. That in itself makes him a keeper. I look forward to participating and getting involved in good and healthy discussions. Thanks!