Is 40 Too Young For Viagra?

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My husband is almost 41 and has recently began to have a problem getting 100% erect in the erection can come and go throughout oral sex or penetrative sex. It's nothing that has to do with how he feels it's like his dick is doing its own thing. I asked him if he could bring up the idea of Viagra or something like that to try to see if he can get firmer erections that stay longer. He said he would be willing to try. Anyone else have similar situations what were solved with an erection medication.
 
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Nope, no age is too young for ED. There are many reasons that cause it. While Viagra, Cialis, Levitra etc. should work, he really should be seen by a urologist who specializes in ED, who would do some diagnostic tests to determine what's causing it. This is preferable to going straight to pills, which all have potential and annoying side effects. They also don't work forever.
 

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Im 26 at this moment, and if for some reason my Penis wouldn't work the way I wanted it to work then I wouldn't even mind using it at my age.

Every now and again the little guy doesn't want to cooperate. I'm in my early 30s but if all I had to do was pop a pill to fix it, count me in. Putting an age of using Viagra or similar products is impossible.
 

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He's in top health. Eats well, is always on the go, takes vitamins, has good blood pressure and is not on any medications.
no bad habits? Maybe in need of rest...
Either way I d go to a doctor, not necessarily for the ED but just for a general screening just to be sure, i imagine a lot of drs have no issue prescribing Viagra to dudes on a semi casual basis provided their heart can take it..lol
 
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Maybe try some supplements first.

I take L’Arginine & Citrulline in the morning and night and I take some of that intra-workout drink with NO2 in it.

The side effect of them is stronger erections and solid morning wood, so I don’t know if I would necessarily call it a side effect.

I’m 42 and married.

It might also just be stress which is a lingering thing. Viagra might override it but it is still there.
 
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42 and noticing the flag pole isn't quite as firm as it used to be. Most of the time its not an issues but after a long session between the sheets or round two or three its a issue for sure. I know the more I think about it the worse it gets!

Talk to a Dr. see what they can do
 

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He's been far more stressed and still got a hard erection. It comes and goes during a blow job and sex. I am extremely tight so a semi can't penetrate easily. And he has to jerk himself off to finish. Never has been a problem other than when he was on antidepressants but he's not on them anymore. I think it's a part of our sex life now if we don't get some help m. Sex won't be possible. And trust me his heart can take it. He had a job where he had to go in high high places that would normally scare people he was the most fit person on the team and had the least fear in the best balance. He's very agile this has nothing to do with a health problem or stress. I've been married to him for 21 years I'm pretty familiar with what I'm used to with him.
 

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But he is aging. While his hair is dark and thick with a little bit of grey on the sides, his long beard is almost entirely grey/white. We're only two years apart in age I look very young for my age and he's aging in his looks earlier than either of us picture. I think he's starting to look more like my sugar daddy than my peer. Lol
 

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But he is aging. While his hair is dark and thick with a little bit of grey on the sides, his long beard is almost entirely grey/white. We're only two years apart in age I look very young for my age and he's aging in his looks earlier than either of us picture. I think he's starting to look more like my sugar daddy than my peer. Lol

I love your hair
 
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Technically no ED problems to date, knock wood. My only similarity is the time it takes me to recharge after an orgasm. Gone are the days of sex, then cuddle for 20 minutes, then more sex. I am over 40 and have stress X 10. Getting an erection and keeping it to completion I am still blessed to say all is well. However, gone are the all night sessions, when I have to be up at 5AM

I may try Viagra one day, just out of curiosity, but I have come to enjoy a cuddle and a nap after sex, almost as much as I once enjoyed a second or third helping of sex.
 
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So first he/you shouldn't freak out (it will only amplify the problem). If his blood pressure and all of his other health related markers are OK it narrows the chances of it being long term physical.

Second you mentioned the anti-depressants. Depending on how long he was on them, and how long it took to ween him off this could be playing a part of the problem if recently stopped.

All that aside the stress plays an incredible part in how our plumbing functions. I would suggest that he (with your help and supervision because in general terms men suck at doing what is good for us) work on reducing or coping with the stress. I know he dealt with stress, but there are different types of stress.

I had a pretty high stress line of work in the military. Multiple deployments, no problems. The kids grew and started following me. My biggest driving stress factors started going up when my kids were deploying at the same time I was and the shit rattled my cage times ten. My cock worked fine, but I had some other major issues.

Another possibility is hormonal. As men age our testosterone levels usually drop. Testosterone affects libido and the fires the receptors that pecker do its magic. If its hormonal (another possibility breaking the big 40) then he may just need some minor treatments.

I would avoid Viagara until a doc does a full exam and draws the conclusion that the blue pill will do the trick. Viagara fucks with your blood flow, anything that tampers with your blood flow is not a good alternative at such a young age.
 

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He's been far more stressed and still got a hard erection. It comes and goes during a blow job and sex. I am extremely tight so a semi can't penetrate easily. And he has to jerk himself off to finish. Never has been a problem other than when he was on antidepressants but he's not on them anymore. I think it's a part of our sex life now if we don't get some help m. Sex won't be possible. And trust me his heart can take it. He had a job where he had to go in high high places that would normally scare people he was the most fit person on the team and had the least fear in the best balance. He's very agile this has nothing to do with a health problem or stress. I've been married to him for 21 years I'm pretty familiar with what I'm used to with him.

Relationship issues?