Is a female a slut if....

[dolfette]

you're right. and it's pathetic.

 

[B_am12388]

I don't think it's slutty. I think it would be slutty if you cheated on your boyfriend with 2 guys, but that isn't the case.

 

[NotQuite_9x7]

Sorry, I made a typo earlier. I meant to type that I personally "would not" call a girl a slut. I mistakenly typed that I would. I'm judgemental, but not that judgemental.

 

[dolfette]

Sorry, I made a typo earlier. I meant to type that I personally "would not" call a girl a slut. I mistakenly typed that I would. I'm judgemental, but not that judgemental.

good to hear.

 

[Pendlum]

God damn, who cares. Hell the only time I ever hear the words slut is in porn, and when someone hates a woman for something. There are people out there who will call you a slut for taking it in the ass. For having sex before you are married. For watching porn. Who gives a shit.

Bottom line, doing something doesn't make you a slut, doing something SOMEONE ELSE doesn't agree with/etc and calls you a slut makes you a "slut".. And it is none of their business.

 

[41103]

Hello all! i wanted to know if you would consider a women a 'slut' or 'hoe' or 'tramp' if she wanted to do a 3some with 2 guys. I wanted to know because what gets me off is a man enjoying himself, and knowing that I am the cause of the enjoyment/pleasure. I think it would be even more fun if I had two guys to to get off with me. (My boyfriend and some one we mutually agree on.) Is that slutty for me to want that?
I don't think so, but I would like to try it. also how could I approach my boyfriend about it?

You're not the only one who fantasize about that... I know plenty women who wants that... I dont think it's slutty, just as long as you don't cheat on you bf doing that, just be honest about it... You'll never know what he thinks about it if you never ask,..

 

[B_quietguy]

For better or for wosre, labels work.

I prefer post-it notes over labels. The post-it notes are easier to remove and don't leave behind any ugly residue. :wink:



If you call a woman a slut, that says a lot more about your values and your behaviors than hers. I might have no idea if the woman in question had lots of sex partners, or has a positive attitude about sex. Maybe she does, and maybe she doesn't.

Each time you call a woman a slut, you advertise to the world that you are judgmental.

Each time you call a woman a slut, you advertise to the world that you try to impose your values and "morals" on others.

Each time you call a woman a slut, you advertise to the world and that you are really not interested in getting to know that woman as a person with her own values and dreams and desires and feelings.

Each time you call a woman a slut, you advertise to the world you can't converse with a sexually active woman without condescension.

Each time you call a woman a slut, you advertise to the world your willingness to insult others and try to alienate people who don't accept your values.

 

[B_quietguy]

Sorry, I made a typo earlier. I meant to type that I personally "would not" call a girl a slut. I mistakenly typed that I would. I'm judgemental, but not that judgemental.

3hander_9x7, thanks for clarifying that. I think I owe you a minor apology. I replied to your earlier post as if you would call a woman a slut. Upon reading your later post, I see my initial assessment of you was inaccurate. Oops! :redface: I now see that what you meant to say was if a woman had many partners, you would not call her a slut, but would still choose not to date her. That's not a policy I would choose for myself, but one I can accept in others.

 

[Jeshua]

i think that if your boyfriend consents and is involved, then you are no slut, far from it. you are very lucky infact to be in such a relationship. if your boyfriend disagreed however and was really uncomfortable with the idea, and u went and found two guys to experiement with behind your boyfriends back.... THAT would make you a slut.

... actually, i wouldnt even say that your a slut then, you would just be a bad person. 'slut' has kind of lost its meaning i think. who cares if someone has had a lot of sex, im more worried about a girl being honest and caring. mentioning to your boyfriend you are interested in something like this says a lot about your commitment and trust in him, and that is very special. you are no slut.

 

[iwatmi]

WTF is wrong with a slut?

 

[lipollo]

So you are Greek with an Irish symbol for an Avatar. Because you are "Greek" you have view of women which is based on logic from 50 to 1000 years ago.

My soccer team is Panathinaikos FC. Have a look at their emblem and you will see it is a clover. and if you really want to go that way my soccer club predates the modern state of ireland.

Greek society is very traditional and patriarchal and hasnt had the concept of political correctness and feminism pushed into it like other western countries.

 

[hud01]

My soccer team is Panathinaikos FC. Have a look at their emblem and you will see it is a clover. and if you really want to go that way my soccer club predates the modern state of ireland.

Greek society is very traditional and patriarchal and hasnt had the concept of political correctness and feminism pushed into it like other western countries.

If you want to go back that far, how about going back over 2000 years when the Greeks popularized man boy and man man sex. Talk about sluts.

 

[NotQuite_9x7]

3hander_9x7, thanks for clarifying that. I think I owe you a minor apology. I replied to your earlier post as if you would call a woman a slut. Upon reading your later post, I see my initial assessment of you was inaccurate. Oops! :redface: I now see that what you meant to say was if a woman had many partners, you would not call her a slut, but would still choose not to date her. That's not a policy I would choose for myself, but one I can accept in others.

Thanks, and I agree with the points that you made when you were ripping me a new one. When someone labels another person, it says as much about the person labeling as it does the person being labeled.

 

[sexyirishboy]

no

 

[jk60122]

I would say that it is a little slutty, but that is great. I think it is awsome that you want to do something like that with your bf. He might really like it if you were acting a little slutty in that situation, I know I would love my wife to be a little slutty like that. But I DON'T think doing that would make you a slut.

 

[yeahyeah8]

No... GO GO GO!!!!