Is a guy getting a BJ being unfaithful in a girls opinion?

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I am curious to know your opinion, i read an article that Bill Clinton truly believed that his Indiscretion with Monica Lewinsky was not being unfaithful as he was not having intercourse, just playing around " getting your cock sucked" is ok an not cheating, what do you girls think of that? I also saw a tv chatshow about teenagers having sex earlier these days and again the attitude to a bj was nothing heavy it is almost like a bit of fun rather than a sexual act.....any thoughts?

thanks in advance for your replies


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Getting a BJ is cheating, giving a BJ is cheating.

"Hey, honey - can I get my cock sucked by another woman tonight"
"Yes dear, of course"

If that doesn't sound like a normal exchange a couple would have then BJ's are cheating.

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

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is this another joke?!?1 lmfao
where is the line drawn if a blowjob isnt cheating?1?!?!? do you need actual penetration to be constituted as cheating? what a dumb question..........
 

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uncut1234 - Sorry to go OT - I know it is kind of your style to be a little confrontational, but you are being extremely aggressive in several of your posts I've read tonight. I don't know it's really necessary, man, maybe you could cool it a bit?
 

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Yes, it is cheating and it is a sexual act.

Whether Clinton was being truthful or not when he said that, I'm unsure. And I am sure Hillary thought he was cheating.

Reverse the situation.

Bill Clinton finds out that Hillary has been giving a man head. Would he be okay with that? I doubt it.
 

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Let's turn it around in order to get to the heart of the matter.
If you had a girlfriend who you adored and she regularly had her pussy licked and eaten out by other guys would you be comfortable with that??
Guess not.....
 

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uncut1234 - Sorry to go OT - I know it is kind of your style to be a little confrontational, but you are being extremely aggressive in several of your posts I've read tonight. I don't know it's really necessary, man, maybe you could cool it a bit?

sorry,. your right, but i mean, the mentality behind some of these threads boggles my mind.... "is a blowjob cheating" ... i mean what the hell.. thats like asking if stop signs are red and white...
 

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I don't know what you mean. :cool:

First star on the left then straight on til morning? :rolleyes:

sorry,. your right, but i mean, the mentality behind some of these threads boggles my mind.... "is a blowjob cheating" ... i mean what the hell.. thats like asking if stop signs are red and white...

To the visually impaired that may well be a point worth debating :smile:
 

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Let's turn it around in order to get to the heart of the matter.
If you had a girlfriend who you adored and she regularly had her pussy licked and eaten out by other guys would you be comfortable with that??
...


Yes. And I would watch them do it.:biggrin1:
 

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]I am curious to know your opinion, i read an article that Bill Clinton truly believed that his Indiscretion with Monica Lewinsky was not being unfaithful as he was not having intercourse, just playing around " getting your cock sucked" is ok an not cheating, what do you girls think of that? I also saw a tv chatshow about teenagers having sex earlier these days and again the attitude to a bj was nothing heavy it is almost like a bit of fun rather than a sexual act.....any thoughts? [/B]
thanks in advance for your replies. Dubai9

A blow job or fellatio is oral sex. It counts as sex. The person giving and the one receiving is engaged in oral sex.

Yes, it is cheating and it is a sexual act.
That's the first smart thing you have said all night. :rolleyes:

Whether Clinton was being truthful or not when he said that, I'm unsure. And I am sure Hillary thought he was cheating. Reverse the situation.

Bill Clinton finds out that Hillary has been giving a man head. Would he be okay with that? I doubt it.
I think Bill would be shocked if he found out his wife was sucking another mans penis. :tongue:
 

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i wouldnt even say cheating has to be sexual. I think cheating is seeking emotional companionship with someone other than your spouse.
 

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Sorry to be a girly, and especially on my first post, but "cheating" depends on how your partner sees it and whether they know and accept it.

I didn't consider being with a girlfriend to be cheating because I really hadn't thought that my partner (male) would mind. I honestly thought that he would be delighted!!! When I found out he wasn't well then it became cheating so I stopped. ;)
 

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Many people go into relationships ASSUMING their partner is going to abide [read monogamy] to their certain set of often undiscussed behaviors. When one of them does any sexual or intimate behavior not to the others liking or expectations, they label it "cheating." The fatal trap in many relationships is most people enter into one Expecting Monogamy. Monogamy is a choice and cannot (for long) be imposed on anyone.

So is giving a BJ or recieving one cheating? Now doesn't that depend on what agreed promises or vows were made before some such behavior occurs?