Is a vpl inappropriate?

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For general public venues, if you can tell if the guy is cut or uncut, that's inappropriate.

HOWEVER, beyond that "body parts are never inappropriate" applies. If you can tell whether the guy hangs left or right that is natural male anatomy and therefore appropriate under all circumstances.

If a guy has high, tight balls (like me) they form a "shelf" so your dick tends to go straight forward and left/right doesn't really apply. Simply being comfortable often requires having a noticeable bulge, and that's completely natural, IMO.
 

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For general public venues, if you can tell if the guy is cut or uncut, that's inappropriate.

HOWEVER, beyond that "body parts are never inappropriate" applies. If you can tell whether the guy hangs left or right that is natural male anatomy and therefore appropriate under all circumstances.

If a guy has high, tight balls (like me) they form a "shelf" so your dick tends to go straight forward and left/right doesn't really apply. Simply being comfortable often requires having a noticeable bulge, and that's completely natural, IMO.

Clothing quality in mainsteam mall stuff has gotten thinner and I only fit into skinny pants and people can make out my head apparently.
 

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Nice bulge.
Do you find that people assume that you have a "semi" or full hardon, just because your are larger soft than most people when they are hard?

I often wonder that. It’s really the only concern. I don’t really want people to think I’m aroused and showing, but if people think it’s just big; cool

This is why I hate when it sticks out. I go commando because it hangs down out of view more. Most underwear make it stick out like a lump

I’ve even played around with a heavy cocking on the glans to keep it weighed down in the pant leg rather than poking out the crotch
 

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For general public venues, if you can tell if the guy is cut or uncut, that's inappropriate.

HOWEVER, beyond that "body parts are never inappropriate" applies. If you can tell whether the guy hangs left or right that is natural male anatomy and therefore appropriate under all circumstances.

If a guy has high, tight balls (like me) they form a "shelf" so your dick tends to go straight forward and left/right doesn't really apply. Simply being comfortable often requires having a noticeable bulge, and that's completely natural, IMO.

I hate that my glans/corona can show, but oh well. Underwear defeats the purpose of thin breathable outerwear material, and that tends to show more. I just don’t want to fool with underwear most of the time
 

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There's another possible piece to this. People could very well be seeing a hint of a dick outline and decide that they see everything clearly visible including the veins. A large number of people see what they want to see and believe what they want to believe.That empirical reality contradicts this is not relevant in their world.

I'm dealing with this phenomenon regarding issues unrelated to VPL's. I have people insisting that a situation is "X" when literally every single piece of objective/empirical data says it is "Y".

My point is that if people want to see glans/corona, they're going to insist it's visible, even if it isn't.
 

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There's another possible piece to this. People could very well be seeing a hint of a dick outline and decide that they see everything clearly visible including the veins. A large number of people see what they want to see and believe what they want to believe.That empirical reality contradicts this is not relevant in their world.

I'm dealing with this phenomenon regarding issues unrelated to VPL's. I have people insisting that a situation is "X" when literally every single piece of objective/empirical data says it is "Y".

My point is that if people want to see glans/corona, they're going to insist it's visible, even if it isn't.

All true, and well said Anton565. However in my case I often wear sweats or shorts with the full intent of letting guys see the size of my cock thru the fabric, and if they stare too long, I pop a semi or even a full erection. Never around underage or ladies, but guys, yeah in a heartbeat.
 

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Personally I always like to show some shape down there, and I like to see an outline, on a guy., I font wear underwear so it's more likely to be a vpl than a bulge.
Sometimes in shorts or thinner fabric I've noticed/been told (once) the head/glans is visible.

But, if someone pumps it up, straps it up or whatever and then wears white lycra to go to store - I think that's a bit much.
 

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A VPL isn't inappropriate as long as it's not hard

If a woman has big tits then she isn't shamed into squashing them down so why should a guy with a big soft cock have to push it down :D
 

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I often wonder that. It’s really the only concern. I don’t really want people to think I’m aroused and showing, but if people think it’s just big; cool

This is why I hate when it sticks out. I go commando because it hangs down out of view more. Most underwear make it stick out like a lump

I’ve even played around with a heavy cocking on the glans to keep it weighed down in the pant leg rather than poking out the crotch
Ever tried 2xist underwear? they help to keep the VPL less visible. Mine is 5" soft. Got to hide it. I'm the boss and have 13 staff to contend with. No sexual harassment charges needed here!
 
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Ever tried 2xist underwear? they help to keep the VPL less visible. Mine is 5" soft. Got to hide it. I'm the boss and have 13 staff to contend with. No sexual harassment charges needed here!
5" soft? Wow, you really are packing and thanks for the reminder on 2xist underwear sightings which I haven't worn in years. :)
 

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Ever tried 2xist underwear? they help to keep the VPL less visible. Mine is 5" soft. Got to hide it. I'm the boss and have 13 staff to contend with. No sexual harassment charges needed here!

Yeah but my balls are at least half the problem. When they are gathered up in undies they really help to make my dick point out and together it’s an unattractive roundish pyramid lump. Mostly the feeling of being squished is ew though. I hate when my sack sticks to my shaft and stuff. Movement and air

Don’t get me wrong, I wear em when I need em, but sometimes I just rule out certain pants so I can go commando
 
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Yeah but my balls are at least half the problem. When they are gathered up in undies they really help to make my dick point out and together it’s an unattractive roundish pyramid lump. Mostly the feeling of being squished is ew though. I hate when my sack sticks to my shaft and stuff. Movement and air

Don’t get me wrong, I wear em when I need em, but sometimes I just rule out certain pants so I can go commando

Lucky problem. lol

West Virginia is a lot warmer and more humid then here. I can see where movement and air would be good. Ever consider a kilt?
lol
More seriously, I bought some Lacoste underwear that was made from Egyptian cotton. Great summer underwear. They really don't look that sexy but feels like my privates can breathe. Here is a pic of one pair.
https://www.lpsg.com/gallery/photos/1745672/
It give a bigger VPL, but they breathe.
 
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Lucky problem. lol

West Virginia is a lot warmer and more humid then here. I can see where movement and air would be good. Ever consider a kilt?
lol
More seriously, I bought some Lacoste underwear that was made from Egyptian cotton. Great summer underwear. They really don't look that sexy but feels like my privates can breathe. Here is a pic of one pair.
https://www.lpsg.com/gallery/photos/1745672/
It give a bigger VPL, but they breathe.

I would totally try out some small balls and sack. Mine kinda get in the way and they are so big they upstage my dick

I’d like some cotton boxer briefs that just had a little fabric channel down the leg for a penis. Balls can have the middle
 
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I have some unlined, lightweight shorts that show the head and there is a decent amount of movement when I walk in them. I also have some mesh shorts that my 010v.JPG
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dick shows through. Really depends on my mood and where I am. However, I never
walk around with an erection.
 

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I have some unlined, lightweight shorts that show the head and there is a decent amount of movement when I walk in them. I also have some mesh shorts that my View attachment 4424941 View attachment 4424931
dick shows through. Really depends on my mood and where I am. However, I never
walk around with an erection.
Yeah, I don’t like for my glans ridge to show. To be fair, it can show if I wear underwear too sometimes, so it’s not just about clothing choice, but I do not like to freeball in sweats and basketball shorts in public
 
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