This site is most helpful.....in terms of big huge dicks and how to deal with one..I appreciate it. Is what I don't understand is everyone's fixation with them. If you have one, and you are not gay, chances are you have or have had issues with women accepting them, I am referring to 8.5" or bigger (length) and 5.5" or bigger (cirCUMference). If you are gay, even then the larger size can present a problem, if you like to fuck anally. I guess to my point, if you have one you have one, if you don't, you don't. If you have one and enjoy your sex life then all is well, and if you do not enjoy your sex life then all is not well...I guess you may want to think about making some changes.... If you do not have one and want one, what can one do? Besides find someone with one. I am not sure about the enlargement techniques not sure if they really work, if they do, where do you stop, if you are fixated in having a huge one! How does one get over the fixation? Any recommendations....?