I am gonna go ahead and be the 1st female (maybe?) to vote, I voted "Yes it shows he's got feelings"...I like men who are in touch with their emotional nature enough to share it with me behind closed doors.
Stoic during a crisis
Emotional when Audrey and George Peppard find the cat
I prefer men who don't talk much. I like them quiet and reserved on the emotional front and I absolutely hate to see a man cry for any reason.
Silence is the sexiest fucking ever, esp when punctuated by moans and sighs. I think we would all get along better if we get therapists for our problems and keep lovers for their true purposes--making love, getting off, kissing, waving farewell until next time.
Good to be in touch with one's heart but no need to talk on it all the time.
I like men that don't express there feelings or talk too much, I think of it as a sign of emotional maturity to not feel the need to display emotions. Express them yes, display them.....no.
Stoic during a crisis
Stoic under pressure
Stoic when she's yapping on and on about "our problems"
Emotional when Audrey and George Peppard find the cat
Enjoy.GreatD, I am slightly bitchy, as it stands, so don't use m on the rule(r) of thumb. Don't worry, I am 100% bitchy and I was not using you or, me for that matter, as a rule of thumb. Just agreeing with your point of view.
The OP's question was "Do you find an emotional guy attractive?" and my answer like yours was: no.
I think there is a time, place and person for everything. My problem is that I do not want to be best friends with my lover/man/spouse. Like, ugh. Friendly, yes but this is not the same. EXACTLY. I do not want to talk to my lover/man/spouse about the same things I talk to my sisters and girlfriends about and as stated in above post I don't even like emotional crying female friends.
Since I am not thinking of them in that way, all the talking/relating/emoting (like we are best buds) is not in my agenda. Ditto. If a man wants to stuff his big hard throbbing shaft into Sugarr, he needs to be relatively quiet in nature. Isn't talking a waste of time under these circumstances? and talkers can't turn it off. No matter how many times I've told certain FBs "I don't want to talk before, during, or after sex"....they just kept doing it. Stopped seeing both of them.
Ok, back to blessed sexy silence. lol.
Cougar, greatdickismydrug, Delicioussugar: I don't see what "not talking much" has to do with "not being emotional". I mean I'm a rather quiet guy but I can get very emotional in certain situations.
That must be a coincidence then. I'm the non-talking emotional type of guy.Well, they just seem to run together in my experience.
From what you tell me, maybe you should give the kind who do occasionally a shot. :wink:
chrissymgreen, UKBBW_Denise, njqt466 and christinab: thank you so much for voting yes!
I'm shocked really...
Don't worry, I'm not crying, lol :biggrin1:
So what you're saying actually is that men need to keep their emotions locked up inside at all time?
Cougar, greatdickismydrug, Delicioussugar: I don't see what "not talking much" has to do with "not being emotional". I mean I'm a rather quiet guy but I can get very emotional in certain situations.
That must be a coincidence then. I'm the non-talking emotional type of guy.
Especially during sex, what's there to talk about before or during sex?
I could write a book of the stupid & crazy shit I have heard.
That's totally different from what I meant with the topic question, otherwise I would have asked: Are talkers attractive?
Well I think I am, and I'm happy to be I love a good conversation but I don't feel the need to talk about my feelings constantly. But I'm easily touched by something.You may just be the exception to what we have found is a rule.
Interesting topic. Thanks for posting.