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Ya know, when you say "You can make all the arguments you want.....", and then follow with "If you're honest....", you're bsaically saying "If you don't see it my way, you're lying" Hmmmm
I'm not saying that at all. What I am saying is that in open relationships, at least one, if not both, are to some degree dissatisfied with the openness.
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Sorry but the best relationships are those where that person fully embraces you for who you really are. One should not have to give anything up to be with someone. And open relationships being selfish, immature, and insecure? Not so. Open relationships take the drama out of relationships since jealously and possessiveness are taken out of the equation. Sharing is caring.
It seems to me that maybe you might have some jealousy and possessiveness issues.
I'm calling bullshit. If you're not giving up anything, for example, dating other people, then you're not in a relationship. I also find it hard to believe, as you seem to indicate, that because of the freedom to sleep with whomever you choose, there is no drama. Of course there. There's always drama of some kind -it's called life. I still go back to it being a child's mentality of "but this is what I waaaaannnntttt". And just because I don't happen to agree with you doesn't mean I have jealousy or possessiveness any more than the next person. I just want someone who is loyal and to me that means, for as long as we're together, we're only sleeping with each other.