Well, speaking as a wife & girlfriend, i love anal. My husbands dick is perfect for anal too, if one is squeamish about trying it. Hes 8 inches long, but slim and even, the whole length.
I've had thicker, but not hugely girth-y, so i don't know how i'd handle big. But yeah. I love anal.
Oh, and anal is not just for gay videos. Have you not seen Seymore Butts? Awesome stuff - and hetero.